If you had one? I'm wondering if epidurals are a myth and a sham in our culture or if I just had a terrible one. After getting it, on the major plus I was able to sleep for a few hours which allowed me to dilate to a 7 from a 4 and get the ball rolling, and I had no pain in my belly and part of my back, but still felt everything from the hips down.
I felt every contraction from start to finish, felt everything while I was pushing, felt myself tearing, felt the local anesthetic for the repairs, and was basically screaming my head off the entire time. I have another friend who said she was also screaming through 7-10 cms with her epidural. So how common is this?
What sucks is my childbirth teacher had stated that if you have an epidural you'll be laughing and chatting through the whole labor, and I've always thought I'd be lucky to be able to move my legs and that it would take away the pain. I feel like that's what most people had told me.
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Both of mine were awesome. The first time my labor was so long that I think it was starting to wear off towards the end because while I was pushing the pressure I felt was starting to feel a bit painful. By the time I was cleaned up it had completely worn off and I was able to walk.
The second time I had a much shorter labor and I felt NOTHING! I barely knew when it was time to push because I thought that mayyybe I was feeling pressure but I wasn't sure. I'm glad I said something because when they checked me I was 10 cm. This time it was several hours after delivery before I was able to walk.
The first epidural was great. I got it at 5cm and rested until I got to 10cm. I didn't feel any pain or pressure while pushing.
My 2nd epidural was not as good but I got it at 8cm, then shortly after I was at 10cm and had baby just an hour after the epidural was in. I felt no pain but a TON of pressure while pushing. Overall, I would say that they were good and I would have a baby any other way.
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I had a pretty rough experience like OP.I got mine at 7 cm. My anesthesiologist (sp) was horrible, took him 8 times to put the catheter in right. (Ouch!!) All the while He had to give me 2 spinal block shots and I was having intense contractions the entire time but had to stay perfectly still.
My epi was run by a pump that never seemed to send enough drugs to completely block out pain from contractions. I still felt pretty crampy but it took just enough of the edge off so that I could rest. (Not sleep, that was still impossible) I did get relief during the pushing and didn't feel pain just the urge to push. However, once DD made it to my pelvic bone I felt everything! I also felt myself tear, the local anesthetic and stitches even though I kept telling my doc I felt everything and that it hurt she just kept stitching!
I also ended up with spinal headaches afterwards and I don't doubt that the 8 different catheter holes in my back didn't help matters.
My experience was pretty rough and I'm considering not even having one with my next kid.
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I only had an epi with DD1, but it was great! I could feel when it was time to push, and was able to push effectively (well, as effectively as you can with an epi). No other pressure or pain.
I had no epi with DD2, and if we have a third baby, I would probably chose an epi. The ring of fire is NOT something I EVER want to feel again.
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Mine was GREAT. It was instant relief I was the smiling, laughing,chatting person through the labor from the time they gave it to me shortly after we were admitted until it wore off later that day. I was a loose 3 when we were admitted by the time I woke up after going to sleep I was a tight 9. I didn't feel anything but pressure when it was time to push. The only issue I had was not being able to move my legs as well as I wanted to but that wasn't a big deal for me.
Sorry you didn't have a good experience.
I got mine at 7cm, and it got rid of the back labor. I felt nothing in my legs, hips, or back, but I still felt contractions painfully in my tummy. That was fine by me since it was the back labor I couldn't handle. I was forced to lie on my left side due to blood pressure issues.
About an hour in, the contractions were back full force.they dosed me again and I felt nothing at all! It was like my body was missing. I needed help pushing. I didn't feel the episiotomy, the stitches or the tearing.
If I had the option, I wouldn't do it again. I much preferred natural medfree delivery. But, I couldn't get up an walk around this time, so that took my ability to manage the pain away.
The two I had were great!! The first I was numb from my nips down. The second I felt pressure but no real pain.
This lo I had med free but I didn't scream or anything.
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With both of my daughters (7 years apart & different hospitals) it did not work at all so my experience was very similar to yours. The doctor said its rare but some people are just "immune" to the medication. Horrible I know!!
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With DD1, the epidural almost completely removed feeling. I could tell a when a contraction hit, but it was sort of like having a hand placed on my abdomen -- no more feeling than that. I was joking with the nurses, but at the same time, I couldn't move my legs to try different positions, and it was terrible coming off that epidural (itching and shakes).
This time, the epidural was much "lighter," if that's the right word. I could still squat and get on my hands and knees to push. It hurt quite a bit, but was bearable. For me, it was just the right amount of pain relief, although there was definitely no laughing or chatting!
Hey, how did you like the fancy new hospital? I'm going to L&D to pick up a breast pump on Friday... if they let me check out a room, I'm sure I'll be jealous.
It was beautiful, really like a hotel. The maternity recovery rooms really are like a hotel, with super soft sheets and the most comfy bed and tvs that go on the internet!
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DS2 5/2012
DS3 4/2015
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