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PREGNANT AFTER THE LOSS OF MY 3 MONTH

Telivia09Telivia09 member
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My 3 month past away 1 month ago there is not a day i don't think about him. he was the most precious little angel ever. We'll Monday i decicded to take a pregnancy test and it came out positive I don't know how to feel my husband starting crying, because we don't know how to feel i still haven't and never going to get over my son that's my son. But I feel like i betrayed him, because i got pregnant to soon and i wasn't ready for it. But me and the Hubby are learning every day to learn to live with it. We have no choice. I just miss my baby so much I pray and i am going to continue to pray.;

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  • 4legsRbest4legsRbest member

    I don't think anyone ever gets over thier loss but hopefully time will ease a bit of your pain. I am so sorry for your loss and that you didn't have time to properly grieve before this BFP, but it is a miracle so congrats and I wish you a long and happy 9 months!

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    #1 IVF/ICSI 4/2/12 = 2 x 7-cell and 1 x 5-cell transferred (3dt) = BFP!!
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    #2 IVF/ICSI 1/19/14 = 2 x 8 cells transferred (3dt) = BFP!! EDD 10/09/14
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  • lotus88lotus88 member
    I'm sorry for your loss. I can't imagine how overwhelmed you are right now. You might also find some comfort on the "Loss" board. I wish you the absolute best for this pregnancy. Congratulations and welcome.
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  • niknak1128niknak1128 member
    Congratulations on your new beginning. =) I agree with the previous posters. I don't think we'll ever get over it. My loss was at 19wks 1day in September and there isn't a day that goes by that I don't think about her.  It's ok to miss him and think of him and be sad and it's ok to move on. I don't think it means that you're betraying him, although, I can see how that feels that way. I think we all do the best we can do given the difficult cirmcumstance and I think it's a given that we all love our babies.
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  • jullybeanjullybean member
    I am so sorry for your loss. I can't even imagine what you went through. But congratulations on your new pregnancy. I pray that it will go smoothly and you will have a happy and healthy 9 months!
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  • weddedwifeweddedwife member

    Nope, you never "get over" it you just learn to live with it. You will love this new baby too, your heart will make room.

    Please come visit us on the Loss board, the ladies there are GREAT. There are several women who have lost infants and toddlers as well.

    Big hugs to you and sending you strength!!

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