James has now peed on the potty 4 or 5 times-- yay! But the only way I can get him to actually sit on the potty long enough to pee is by letting him watch TV while he sits there. Other incentives such as mnm's don't work for getting him to sit there for more than a few seconds.
What did you do in the stage before they were able they realized they needed to go and told you? (we are definitely not there yet-- I've had him in underwear and pants today to try and get the idea across but he's peed in his pants 5 times). I feel like I shouldn't be letting him watch so much TV, but maybe the ends justify the means here?
Re: How do you keep them sitting on the potty?
We use books!!! Still do...
Go James!!!
The second time (which was the successful time) we had the potty in the living room with the tv. He could sit on the potty and watch tv or play on the ipad or whatever he wanted to do. We are 2 months out and he is trained and uses the potty in the bathroom now so I dont see any long-term negative effects from this method. Do whatever you need to do.
Also, M&Ms didnt work for us either, I rewarded poop with Cars 2 socks. Whatever works!
-----Lisa-----
Bribery. I'd put her on the potty and say, if you tinkle, you can have (chose your child's best currency here) peanut butter on a spoon (her favorite treat), watch Little.Einstein's, crackers, play the iPad...etc.
Worked very well.
Then, once we got actually going in the potty down, we did naked time at home. She wouldn't want to go into air, so she would tell us. Once she got that down, it was downhill from there!