We are still swaddling and I am kind of freaking out now. Daycare doesn't swaddle after 6 months. He'll be 6 months adjusted on the 12th (8 months actual on the 13th). We are going to speak to his doctor about it when he goes and gets a shot next week. He still has his Moro Reflex. The boy looks like he is conducting an orchestra when you put him down unswaddled and promptly wakes himself up.
Thoughts? Suggestions?
Oh yes, we did order a couple of Magic Sleep Suits. Hopefully they work as well as swaddling. Day care will use those. I am sure if the doctor okays it, they'll continue to let him be swaddled too. But, this is a new pedi, and I'm not sure how she feels about this sort of thing.
ETA: he does not roll from back to belly (can roll from belly to back) and is sitting unassisted. So, we're not worried about strength issues.
Re: Anyone swaddle after 6 months?
What? This makes no sense. Are you actually suggesting I hold him through the entire night? Because, at this point, that is what would have to happen. He moves his arms around like crazy, beats his face, and wakes himself up.
What is stressful about swaddling?
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We did but only because it hit right around the holidays, family death, and vacations when we were going to wean her (6 months).
She is weaned now and it's been working out great. The first time we tried to wean her (5 months) it went horrible. We tried cold turkey first and that just didn't work for DD. So for about 2 weeks we swaddled with 1 arm out... I think that got her used to having an arm free that she had to learn to control or whatever. We would also switch which arm we left out.
Then we started Ferber when we got back from the holiday vacations and cut out the swaddle, bouncing to sleep, and paci all in one night. So far so good.
We stopped swaddling at night at about 3 months -- he was breaking out of every swaddle we tried and the blanket was on his face twice. I got one of the sleep sacks that has the swaddle "attachment" to it -- he sleeps in that now, without the attachment because it keeps his feet contained (which was our issue, not his arms).
We went cold turkey because DS was okay with that. When I laid him in the crib (asleep), I would hang onto his arms really tight for a minute or two until he relaxed, and then slowly release my grip so if he started to startle, I was right there. It took a few nights, and I was up more than usual, but he didn't do too bad! Then he decided he was a side sleeper for about a week, and then turned into a tummy sleeper a week after that.
DCP still swaddles for naps, but he's been fighting the naps so I think he's done - the last time they tried to wean him, it didn't go so well! They will let him sleep on his tummy (especially since he rolls there), so we're having that conversation tomorrow.
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BFP #1:10/31/10 DS born 6/22/11BFP #3:4/24/12 DD born 12/31/12