How do/did you tell your SO that you miscarried?

b3ll3ma3 · December 2011

I know that there is already a post on miscarriage but how did/do you tell your significant other that you miscarried?

nevr2amazin · December 2011

Just sit down and tell her. You need her to be there for you as much as she needs you to be there for her. Believe, she will want to be there for you.

I am so sorry for your loss.

bluedaisyus · December 2011

she knew it was coming both times, we found out I was going to miscarry at the RE's office so we were prepared. well, as prepared as you can be in these situations. I agree with N2A, just sit down and tell her--and the sooner the better.

seahorse mama · December 2011

If it's you, so sorry for your loss. I m/c at 6 wk ultrasound before the seahorse came along and had to go through a full waiting room of huge happy pregnant ladies and all their kids. so sad. I vowed to go only to the ultrasound places they do for wrist sprains and such from then on. Best of luck to you. See the m/c sections on the bump. very helpful.

Meegs10.13.06 · December 2011

bluedaisyus:
she knew it was coming both times, we found out I was going to miscarry at the RE's office so we were prepared. well, as prepared as you can be in these situations. I agree with N2A, just sit down and tell her--and the sooner the better.

This. We found out at an ultrasound. But, definitely sit her down and tell her.

I'm sorry.

mindingpandq · December 2011

I am so accoustomed to giving my DW the play by play, that it was natural that I called her the second I started bleeding. I was surprised at how difficult it was for me to tell other people - like my dr who teared up when I finally got a positive test. Anyway, as hard as this is for you, you will feel best when you have your SO by your side. Sorry for your loss and good luck for your next try.

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