How long will your DH wait before he picks up crying (not fussing) LO? My DH seriously irritates me when DS is sitting in the crib really crying and he just waits and waits and waits and then when I say "Ok babe, I'll get him." (even though I do every night time feed and his alarm already went off), THEN he tries to get up quicker than me and says "I was getting up."
um no you definitely were laying there facing the wall and ignoring this poor crying child. ughhhh so irritating! I guess this was more of a vent than a question lol
Re: ughhh DH question
I do all the feedings since I'm BF, but otherwise I'm in the same boat..if DH gets up... If we're all in the living room and LO is on the playmat or in the swing and he starts crying, 9 out of 10 times it's me responding to him. DH can get up and comfort the baby, too, but he usually doesn't. He thinks (I assume) that anytime the baby cries he's hungry so he lets me get him most of the time.
OMG I know, I had to help my mom move this saturday and left LO with DH, he fed him 3 times in 5 hours. Im like why that often, he goes " cause he was crying"..DH is a good daddy, he wakes up at night when LO cries, but during the day he has to idea what routine we have:)..
Sometimes he is awesome and gets up and feeds her as long as I make the bottle (his horrible excuse is that he hates the drop in bottles and doesn't want to make it lol) but most of the time he will let her cry and listen to me telling him to get up and it's his turn... then when I get up... "I WAS DOING IT." Well, you weren't, so I am going to, but thanks.
He thinks I run to her too fast when she's crying. If she's crying because she's hungry, DUH I hurry up and get a bottle