I wanted to bring my friend something in the hospital when she delivers.. but not the usual flowers/balloons/crap to lug home. I wanted more of a gift that would be practical things she would USE but have no forethought to get ahead of time .. you know?
One thing that popped in my head were those makeup-remover cloths, because TRULY sometimes you are too tired to wash your face at night. What else??? I'm a second-time mom maaaan, why can't I think????!
*and I am making her a meal, but her hubby (the cook) is taking 6 wks off.. so I am making/bringing it when he goes back to work, and the other donated meals are eaten.. and they REALLY need it!
Re: Gift for new mom - help me be clever!!
If you know for certain that she will be BF and you are close, I'd bring some nursing pads, lanolin, and gel soothies!!
If not or if you aren't sure about BF, then maybe some bath products, like bubble bath or shower gel, a new bath puff/sponge, body butter etc..
Mac and cheese lover!
I got the best gift at my shower- a "mommy basket" with comfy PJs, a nail salon giftcard, bath products, etc. I used most of it before delivery, but still love the PJs.
Maybe some yoga pants, or a cute n comfy sweatsuit or PJs? I lived in mine for 3 months!
My SIL just had a baby, and I thought about putting together a survival kit for her with things that I've found helpful: ice packs, stool softener, good maxi pads, lanolin, nursing pads, ibuprofen, etc. She'd already bought most of that stuff, though.
I do like the idea of gift cards to restaurants that deliver. Even when her husband is home, they might both be so busy and worn-out that Chinese or pizza is appealing. You might also consider a gift card to a place that does newborn photography.