I've been a good sport up until now, most of my friends don't have kids yet and some are still single even. I went to Vegas at 6 weeks pregnant with girlfriends and went to the Cape this past weekend with a different group of girls. Both times the main activity was hitting up bars/clubs. Don't get me wrong, I don't mind casual bars with a small band in the corner that serves food but these have been music pounding, crowded with sweaty drunken people grinding up on eachother places.
I didn't complain, I stayed out late and had as much fun as I could manage but I have decided I am offically done with that scene. It almost makes me even MORE excited to have a family and a baby where my main activities on vacation are mini golfing, hitting the beach and going out for ice cream. I feel really old now but I can't wait!
Re: Pretty happy to be done with the bar and party scene, anyone else?
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Haha that made me laugh. I think you guys will do great!
you are not alone! We were never into that scene either. We're 24 and have never really fit in well with some of our friends because of it. I enjoy going out to dinner and having a few drinks here and there.....but every weekend going to the bars? It has never interested me.
I just came to that realization this weekend as well. Before I kind of missed the crazy let's get blacked out drunk and sleep the next day type of nights. Just this weekend we had a family party and everyone (except for me) woke up hungover and miserable. That night and the next morning I said "man, I don't miss those days at all".
I will have a few drinks with dinner and go to casual bars, but my crazy days are over and I couldn't be happier!
I am also so happy be done with the bar scene. It has slowly stopped being fun for me since i got married. I am HAPPY to find family outings for ice cream and put put to be in my future plans. But a little sad that so many of my friends still do the bar scene and the singles scene and i will lose a lot of them. I sorta feel some drifting already. It's sad, but i am focusing on the happy and exciting future i have ahead of me.
I'm 30 and that scene has been gradually fading from our lives anyway. I think it was just that natural evolution that made us want to decide to have kids now. I don't crave to go out and party at all anymore like i did when i was 23. We still like to go out and have a good time occasionally but def. not as often as we used to. I usually prefer to just have a couple glasses of wine at home or w/ friends. I do miss that a little. (the wine that is)