Not happy... (vent and a little long)
So... I think I have been a damn good wife during this pregnancy even though I have been completely miserable throughout. Every weekend I let my husband go out on Saturday nights because he works so hard and that is the only night he gets to do anything. Well last weekend I had asked him to start staying home because I am just feeling very lonely lately and even more emotional. Well he agreed and said thats fine no problem at all, which I appreciated. Well he was off on Thursday so he wanted to know if he could go out on Wed and I let him because I knew he would be home this weekend. Well the freakin weekend is here and he works Saturday but our good friend is having marriage issues and he says he needs to talk... rrrrrrrrr.... I feel bad for the man but my god isnt it freakin convenient that this is happening on the freakin weekend when I feel completely alone and depressed!!!! What about me, maybe I need attention... rrrrrr
He is such a good husband he really is and obvisously a good friend as well, but I really needed him here and he just seemed more concerned with talking to our friend.
Am I just being stupid?
Re: Not happy... (vent and a little long)
i'm at the point in my pregnancy where i'm also wanting to spend some time with my husband before baby arrives. he too works on weekends which really sucks for me because saturday and sunday's he works 15 hour shifts!!! =( i don't think your wrong for wanting that private time, just you and him. we as pregnant woman have raging hormones sky rocketing and this is a time where we need our "rock" to rely on when random emotions start pouring in out of nowhere!!
goodluck
This!! Its the best of both worlds, he gets to talk to his friend and still gets to spend time with you. If he isnt willing to compromise then you have room to really get upset. GL!!!