Aside from telling you how dilated/effaced you are, what is the benefit to having an internal exam at each visit? I'm planning on declining them because I figure the knowledge that I'm x cm isn't really going to do me any good. The baby is going to come when he comes so what is the point of having that information? Any other good reasons for an internal per visit?
*disclaimer - if there were any indication of danger to me and/or the babe, and an internal would provide helpful info, I would have one. I'm talking strictly no risk, everything going along just peachy here.
Re: Internal exams question
**Kelly***
That still doesn't really tell you anything though. Some people will have a long early labor and then go from 4-10 cm in an hour. Some people might have a quick early labor and then stall out at 7 cm for a while.
I guess I pretty much see the same reasoning...
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Mine wasn't painful for me, but I will agree that the info I got from it was pretty much useless to me.
In addition to what everyone else said, my OB said it's also to confirm position of the head.
Ugh I've been having them since 30 weeks due to incompetent cervix, and prelabor issues! Let me tell you they are not fun, althought they have been pretty gentle with me until recently I'm guessing because its ok if he were to come now.
Well yesterday I went to my appointment, and my Dr. had a medical student with her. Well I've met this medical student before and all she did was measure the fundal height, and listen to the heartbeat. Well as my Dr. is talking to me about my sinus pressure, I see the med student putting on the gloves and I'm like OHHHHH NO!!!! So of course I did not say anything, the girl checks me and was like well I'm thinking a fingertip to a cm! I'm sitting there like ok I've been a cm since 30 weeks and 70 percent effaced so this girl is wrong, and holy sh*t did it hurt! So then my Dr. is like let me recheck her, I'm still the same since I have been at week 35, 2 cm and 80 percent effaced since week 37. I wanted to scream so as if it was not bad enough having to be checked once, then they had to do it again! NEVER EVER AGAIN is a med student at my Dr's office checking me. The Dr. was like well your prob estimating wrong because his head is right there, and so jammed in there! I was like so I had to be tortured and be your experiment! God experiment on someone else haha! This is the same girl that hooked me up to the contraction monitor wrong, but thats another story LOL!
Anyway Goodluck!
https://pregnancy.about.com/cs/interventions/a/vaginalexam.htm
Great article that explains the pros and cons well.
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Thank you
Carina 12.28.2010 | Aurelia 9.23.12 | Chart - Round 3
I would have said no way to a med student doing an internal!!
I had one at 36 weeks and it wasn't painful at all. I declined it at 37 weeks, but I'll be getting checked again at 38 weeks. I'm doing weekly acupuncture to get my body ready for delivery and the information from the internal is helpful to my acupucturist.
And I'm sorry to the woman who had a bad exam from a med student. I wouldn't judge all med students on that one experience though. After going through IVF at a medical college/hospital, I saw a lot of med students when I had appointments with my RE and I thought that they were all very nice and professional.
I think the med student is very nice, and we have many teaching hospitals around here. Actually where I'm delivering is a teaching hospital, and I have had plenty of run ins before with the med students, no problems!
I am not judging her all I'm saying is this is the second time, I have had a bad experience with this particular med student. I know they have to learn, and I'm sure she is very smart; but I'm just saying this pregnancy has been trying enough with incompetent cervix issues, and preterm labor, and I was not thrilled that I had to be examined twice.
I wouldn't feel bad about what you said! I know that a student is there to learn and they have to learn on someone, but dear lord, I don't want that someone to be me! No thank you.