I'm seriously a very independent person. My dh is usually the clingy one, which can bother me at some points. Lol. But now I feel bad becuase I'm super clingy. I want him around, and I feel mean, because today I want a family day and he just asked me if he could go hang out with friends. (This is after yesterday he spend all day with his friend and left me to listen to the gf of the friend complain for 10 hours) And I told him straight up that "yes I mind" "I wanted a family day". And now I don't know what he's thinking... cause he's not saying anything to that. And I feel bad becuase usually I wouldn't have an issue about this. But it's our last week as a family of 3 and I want to take advantage of it.
Anyone else clingy or feeling hormonal?
Re: Anypne else clingy?
im so clingy and my husband is out 24/7 working and going to school...he always tells me off when i wine when he goes! and also last night i cried for no reason in bed because i knew he was getting up at 6 am the next morning and i wouldnt be able to go back to sleep without him!
dam hormones
when he returns i dont wanna leave him alone and he is not the affectionate type so its pretty funny...looks like a girl is trying to run round after a little boy and give him cooties xD
I don't think any of that sounds unusual or unreasonable. The feelings are probably hormonal, but I don't think they are unusual. If he hung out with his friend yesterday then he should hang out with you guys today...sometimes guys are just dense and only think about what they want at that particular second. He's probably not spending as much time thinking about how your family is about to change, etc etc. I'm sure if you 'make' him spend the day with you he'll end up enjoying it and appreciating the final time he got to spend as a family of 3.
(raises hand) me, me!!
SOOO clingy. DH doesn't seem to mind right now, but I feel like I can't get enough time with him. We don't spend a lot of time together because our work schedules are opposite and we have a bunch of other stuff going on, but when we do spend time together, it never seems like it's enough.