I'll be off between Christmas Eve and New Year's. I've realized on weekends how much work it is to be with DS all day now that maternity leave is a few months behind me. As hard as being a working mom is, I give SAHM's a lot of credit for being home 24/7! DH will be home for a few days, but for the most part I'll be with him alone all day. I'm a little nervous about keeping DS occupied and enjoying this time off as much as I can. DS's also too young to do much outside of the home, especially if the weather's not good. He's also still a catnapper so far, fingers crossed we are trying for a nap schedule over the break. What are your tricks for making the most out of longer times at home with your kids?
Re: A whole week home with DS (help!) :)
Honestly, at that age, I would probably set one goal a day for myself (i.e. make dinner or go to the grocery store) and if it happened, it happened, if not, oh well.
Enjoy your time - and just chat away w/ your LO, sing songs, practice tummy time, read, etc. but remember he will nap a good bit of the day. Don't stress too much.
Ha! I totally feel your pain. I feel like that a lot. I love DD, but keeping her stimulated and happy alone for days on end is overwhelming!
Other moms are going to have the same problem with child care closed. Can you talk with the other moms at your DCP and maybe have a playdate? Or a playdate with friends, co-workers or family? Do you have retired relatives or SAH friends? I filled a good chunk of time with playdates, admittedly more for me, at that age.
Other than that, the good news is that you will have new stuff from Christmas to play with. Bundle him up and take him for walks, even if it's around the mall. You need to get out some. See if there is a story hour at the library or local bookstore. He might be young, but he might enjoy it and you will get out. I would do photo shoots for an hour or so every day.
The time will go quickly and you will have fun. Enjoy!
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At that age it is easy peasy. My best advice- do things FOR YOU. Baby just mearly tags along. Go to a museum, walk the mall, catch a good flick, read a book for you (i used to ALWAYS read my DD my own books/magazines- she just likes hearing your voice). Baby will be happy to just have you around. Snuggle, relax, sing songs, be silly on the floor.
Don't stress out over 'occupying' baby. At that age it is more about passing the time for you.
As they get older it is all about them- I miss that 'me' time. Now that I have a 2.5yr old (and a newborn) it isn't as easy to catch up on me time at all.
This exactly! Have fun and good luck.