I posted on here before about how to reconnect with a newly pregnant BFF who lost her son to SIDS in March. I just woke up to 2 missed calls, a text, and a voice mail and cant desipher through her crying except for going to doctors. My only guess is she lost the baby. I have no idea what to do! It is only she and I out her in the west (WY, and MT.) from Delaware and we are each others supprt system even though we are still 2 hours apart. Neither of us are closer to our husbands familys (or even speak to them for that matter) and have no family of our own here. Obviously I feel I should go drive to her right now but what about LO! DD is and her DS were the exact same age and although she loves DD im not sure she should be there let alone me!! Im pregnant also and clearly showing! Would you rather have me there or not have me there? And I have no support here I have no where to take DD I would have to take her with me. TIA
(im sorry if any of this came out wrong in any way im a complete disaster right now with worry since she wont answer my calls, and I know i cant help her pain yet again)
Re: What should I do in your opinion(ticker &pic warning)
My husband was able to be with me. That really helped. The best thing my friends did was be there to listen. If you were my friend, I'd like you to call regularly to check in/let me vent. Maybe send flowers or dinner over (delivery). Just don't let her feel alone or forgotten.
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