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Men should not talk about birthin babies.
DH works with a guy whos wife had a c-section. Now he's saying "Co-worker says c-sections are better" I tried to explain why a vaginal birth is better for the baby and mom. "well co-worker says all women lose their sex drive when they dont have a c-section" WHAT?! Are you serious?
I told him it was on an individual basis, but that we arent going to be able to have sex for a few weeks after the baby is born, and if I had a c-section, it would be the same case, except for I wouldnt be able to pick up anything.
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Re: Men should not talk about birthin babies.
has nothing to do with a vaginal or section-
your sex drive is killed by extreme exhaustion and/or breast feeding.
Yep.
and he knows this how? how many wives does this guy have for comparison?
My question exactly! Tell him if he reads that in a pregnancy book, then he can talk to you. Although I know how hard that can be to get them to do (my DH hasn't read a single book!). I would say he was just concerned for your well-being, except for the whole sex comment... Gosh.
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Ugh!!! Is that ALL guys think about... I would just say whatever! Your the one that has to go through it so you should be able to make that decision without all the pros and cons.
Besides, everyone is different.
Hope it gets better!
This, exactly.
let your DH know that the idea is BS. being exhausted is what kills the sex drive. sure, for a few weeks, its a no go, but that's no matter what.
One of my friend's wife had her 3rd baby (his first) all natural. No drugs, no episiodomy. She didn't tear a bit. They were back to having sex as soon as the doc had her IUD in (less than a month), because SHE was ready.
It all depends on the woman, and how her body heals.