I was talking to my friend last night who is currently pregnant with her first child. She asked me if i remembered being in labor. I answered her honestly "No" I know that i was having small contractions for days and was in labor labor for 13 hours. But honestly i dont remember the pain, i dont remember pushing for an hour or that fact i felt like i been hit by a bus for three days afterwards. This made me wonder if im the norm or the minority.
So i ask you ladies Do you remember the pain?
Re: Do you remember the pain?
I do, but even as I was going through it, I remember thinking "This hurts, but it's not as bad as I thought it would be."
I had a toothache last night that I can honestly tell you I think hurt worse. I cried last night... I didn't cry in labor, except when I was throwing up.
I totally do. I was induced, and the pain of the contractions prior to my epidural was awful. I really wanted to die. Once I got the epidural, everything was awesome. Pushing was a breeze because I literally felt nothing.
I also remember the pain of recovery (2nd degree tear). Ugh. I'm not prepared for baby #2 anytime soon!
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I don't exactly remember the pain or all the details, but I remember the overall night.
I remember bits and pieces, I remember certain contractions, I remember the overall pain when LO crowned. But the rest is kind of a big blur.
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For having a c-section the recovery pain was no where NEAR what I was expecting it to be. Maybe I got very lucky.
The contractions from the pill they gave me to soften my cervix sucked because they were erratic and coming every 30 seconds...literally they were not letting up so it was one big giant contraction until I got my epi and even that wasn't as bad as I was expecting.
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Ha! YES! Induction will pretty much ensure that you have pain that you couldn't soon forget. But I remember the relief of the epidural equally well.
Did it suck? Yes. But it was totally worth it, and I'll be ready to go through it again in a couple of years.
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