who wrote TBPS about preemie babies being the mothers fault... You can kiss my big fat red headed butt!
Like any women would choose to have their baby baby come early and possibly leave them in the hospital for an unknown amount of days?!? I hope you never ever have to go through that...you dumb, dumb person...
Re: To the person...
I saw this too..I wanted to smack a b!tch.
What an ignorant a-hole.
Cam was only in there 16 days and was considered large at 3 lbs. I consider myself lucky that she did not have to be in there longer.
I was induced for 48 hours due to pre-e being so out of control that I almost had a seizure.... I never even dialted and had a flat lung... I think that was all my fault! Some people need to be punched in the boob!
I did everything "right" and I still developed pre-e at 24 weeks. My OB didn't think I would make it to 32 weeks, but that was our goal. I made it to 35 and seriously did everything I could to make sure he was safe.
Maybe the poster thinks I should have never been pregnant because of my IF treatments and multiple m/c?
Adam had a broken clavicle from delivery...and I had an infection because they let me go so long after my water was broken and he needed antibiotics.
Sass, I couldn't agree more!
I think I remember talking with you on the tri boards, unless it was 0-3, but I think it was the tris. I didn't know your baby came early, she's beautiful. I love the hair.
LOL thanks... Some people just need to be smacked!
I really wish people would not hide behind these and come out and say it. I would love to go toe to toe with them...
Thank goodness somebody said it! I read it several times because I couldn't believe someone was that freaking ignorant. I am glad to hear your preemie is doing great!
Are you effing serious??!?! I cant believe someone would say such a thing!!
I had someone ask me the other day if I was glad DS was born with a defect that could have killed (it wasn't caught) him so DH could come home from Afghan for a couple weeks. Ummm, NOOO! I'd much rather DS be born completley healthy and not have to hear "I don't want to scare you but there is a good possibility he could die" 6 hours after I had him while DH wasn't here.
The reasons people say such things I will NEVER understand.
The pain of leaving your baby in the NICU is heartbreaking. DS had surgery at 4 days old and I couldn't even be there because I wasn't discharged. I didn't get to see him for more then an hour until he was 5 days old.
ETA-this is going to be my FFFC