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Feeling Numb

Just got a text from DH about the S/A results....

"Got a call from the uro. Not good. They want me to go to a fertility specialist"

Of course I want to throw something at him because he got no more information than that. The results should have gone to my doctor as well so I've left a message with them and am hoping for a call back shortly.

Now I find myself crying in my cube trying not be totally obvious about it. I'm so sad about this. And just not sure what to do next.

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  • I'm so sorry Kathy. Hugs!
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  • RicolaRicola member
    I am so sorry, Kathy. ((hugs)) Can you take an early lunch break and try to calm down a bit?
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  • kje120kje120 member

    I'm sorry :(

    I hope your doctor gets back to you and has some more information for you.

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  • Aw, I'm sorry. That sucks. I hope you get more information from your doctor. Like super soon. I would be crying in my cube too. No shame in that.
  • Oh Kathy, I'm so sorry. :( I was hoping things would come back okay for you guys. At least you can move forward and come up with a plan, rather than waiting and wondering. Not that it's any comfort right now, I'm sure.
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  • I'm so sorry Kathy, ((hugs)).  My t&p's will be with you.  I hope everything turns out ok for you and YH.
  • I am sorry.


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  • I'm sorry that the results aren't good ---- but I have to say that at least now you know. Now you can do something to help correct problems. It's sad to find out - but good that you did. Now you can make a better plan with your doc to get you to your BFP!
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  • Mags04Mags04 member
    I'm so sorry.  Hoping that you get more information and can feel better real soon.

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  • I'm so sorry :(  Hopefully you can get details from your doctor soon.  
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  • I'm sorry about the news Kathy :( Hopefully you can get in touch with your doctor soon so they can tell you what you should do now.
  • I'm so sorry Kathy :(

    I second the advice on getting away from the desk. Can you take a break and go get some takeout or something? 

    (((Hug)))

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    Oh Kathy, I'm so sorry. :( I was hoping things would come back okay for you guys. At least you can move forward and come up with a plan, rather than waiting and wondering. Not that it's any comfort right now, I'm sure.

     

    I agree with this. I am sure it is heartbreaking to know there is a problem, I am so sorry. Obviously the first choice is everything is ALL CLEAR! But now that the problem is identified, hopefully there is a good and effective solution. Good luck to you!

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  • ::HUGS::  I know it is really disappointing news, try to keep your chin up.  I am so sorry!  Best wishes!
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  • Lkat17Lkat17 member
    So sorry, Kathy. I hope your doctor will have some more information for you and that you'll get some answers soon.

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  • I'm sorry, Kathy. I'm sending hugs and T&Ps your way!  
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  • Yes! You need more info ASAP.  The fear of the unknown is the worst.  I love my DH but he is horrible about getting info from the doc.  Me, I am 20 questions and taking notes the whole time. DH just comes home with the "I don't know, didn't think to ask"!  
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  • I'm sorry. :( I hope you guys get some answer soon!
  • So sorry :(  Good luck in your next steps-- at least you'll know soon how you can move forward.

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  • I'm so sorry - I hope that things work out ok for you!
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  • I'm so sorry! ((hugs))

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  • I'm so sorry sweetie. I hope you get answers quick. ::Hugs::
  • sorry hun. I know its rough. DH having problems sometimes makes u feel like u have no control or lost.  sending u T&P's & hugs!!!

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  • I'm sorry you're going through this. I hope you get some answers soon.
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    I am so sorry. I hope you get to talk to the Dr. soon.
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  • So sorry to hear this. I hope you hear from the Dr. soon so you can get some answers.
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  • I am so so sorry the news wasn't better news. I am praying for you & your DH that you get some answers and a plan on how to move forward from here!
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  • So sorry to hear this... T&P!
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  • I am so sorry. Can you get away from your desk for a little bit to calm down? I know that it is really hard to hear the news but at least now you know what is happening. My SIL and her husband are in the same situation and they are discussing ways to fix it with their doctor. There is still hope. It may not feel like it right now, but there is. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
  • I'm sorry.  I hope you get some news and solutions soon.
  • I'm so sorry :(  I'm sure that you'll get more info/insight from your doc....hang in there...
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  • I am so sorry to hear that Kathy ((hugs)).  I hope you were able to leave work for lunch to try and get a little clarity.I'm thinking about you and sending postive vibes & thoughts your way!
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    I'm sorry that it wasn't good news.  Good luck with your next steps!
  • I'm sorry.
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  • Oh no love :(

    Hopefully it isn't as bad as he is making it seem? 

    I'm praying for you guys.


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  • Thanks Ladies for all your kindness. I went out to lunch and pulled myself together (finally!).

     

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  • I'm so sorry.  I hope it's something that's easily treatable.
  • Im so sorry to hear this.. I really hope you get more information from your doctor... Best of luck sweetie
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