I wish I could make this a sticky at the top of this board, since this stupid site makes it basically IMPOSSIBLE to figure out.
It really infuriates me that The Bump does this to ladies who have experienced loss. Like it isn't hard enough.
I'm finally a pro, but I've done it quite a few times.
Here it is:
Go to your bio page.
Under the avatar photo, "edit profile"
The "Our Family" tab
"Delete child" (and flick off The Bump for being that insensitive)
"Save"
That'll take care of it.
::::Big Hugs To Everyone::::
Re: How To Update Your Status So The Bump Stops Torturing You
BFP #1 5/2010 - Missed m/c at 8 weeks
BFP #2 2/2011
Baby G welcomed with love and relief 10/2011
Surprise BFP 1/8/2013...say what? Baby A arrived 9/2013
Motherhood is not for wimps
It takes ten minutes or so for the site to update.
Thank you for the psa. It sucked trying to figure that all out last month after my m/c.
It really should be a sticky and it would be awesome if they could have a better way of changing your status than deleting a child.
m/c 6/10
We love and miss you Jillian (18w) and Peanut (6w). Welcome to our TAC miracle Jacob!
THANK YOU! I just did that- hopefully it'll kick in soon. Really don't need a reminder that I should have my baby next week....I remember all on my own.
ETA: it's now been 2 hours and they still haven't taken off the "Congratulations!" message. Argh.
I haven't updated mine because I can not delete my child. I just can not make myself do it. DELETE MY CHILD????? what the heck. They DEFINATELY need a better way to do this.
Agreed...it should say something like "No longer expecting" to be more tactful.
I did this, bbut I still get annoying Bump email every once in awhile with pregnant-related topics.