I really wanted to go to the mall by myself and purchase my baby shower dress and a few other knick nacks so I told DH that I'd be going to the mall after work. He just invited himself {so bizarre, DH HATES shopping} I wish I could just tell him I'd rather him just stay home.
Ever have those days you just want to be alone?
Re: So how to tell DH he's not invited..
Yeah...My DH is out of town this weekend...I am SO looking forward to it!
Since the LO has been on the way, I have felt a little quieter and more independent some days-- I think this worried DH a little at first since I'm usually the one getting him out of the garage (loves his car/anything mechanical) to get out and do stuff! I just had to come out and say that I just needed a little more me time these days, and that it had nothing to do with our relationship!
I totally feel you on this--he may just want some couple time though! Happy shopping either way
Kindly tell him that you appreciate his wanting to be there, but you really need to have this alone time, as your chances of being alone are decreasing daily...
My DH hates shopping and once in a while he'll do this to me. I tell him to stay away. LOL
OMG, if I wasn't sitting here reading this right now, I would have thought that I wrote it. This is sooo the issue with me and DH EVERYTIME I go to the mall. And the thing is, he gets mad if I don't ask if he wants to come. I switched up on him though. I go to the mall after work now...lol.
Ask him why he wants to go along if he hates shopping, because you don't want to deal with the attitude.
Yes I have those days. DH will be gone the night of the 19th on a boy's overnight thing.. and I am actually excited to have a night to myself. Hammock, ice cream and a good book.. here I come.
I want my husband to go shopping with me as it is our baby and he is very excited about it all too, but I do understand about needing the alone time and sometimes he takes a little too long deciding on one thing. Just be honest with him but make sure to include him other times!
P.S. I am new here, what is DH and why abbreviate?
I love when my DH comes shopping with me...if there is a chair in the change room area he'll sit and wait and likes to see everything and will even grab me other stuff! but i hate when it's my turn....i get so bored sitting there waiting for him when he's changing...but i smile and pretend to semi enjoy it! bahaha! luckily for me, he doesn't shop for himself much.
DH stands for dear/darling? i thought Dream! He's my Dream Husband anyway! hahah thanks for the link i had a hard time finding it again.
Since you're getting further along, DH is probably trying to show you he's interested in your interests and being supportive, especially since he's not usually a shopper.
If you really want the alone time, let him know gently that you want some girl time, but you'd love to snuggle up with him later that evening or go to dinner. Just support him as much as he tried to support you--he's got changing feelings about this baby as much as you do, believe it or not.