So Aidan dislikes his car seat, I can't figure out what it is, position? Straps? One of us has to sit in the back with him incase he has a freak out, it can be pretty bad at times. I'm wondering if anyone else has this problem and how they remedied it. I don't want to believe that we have to buy another brand after shelling out $250 for "top of the line" any suggestions???
Unfortunately, I'm in the same boat ... I don't think that there's really anything that you can do about it ... in dd's case, she HATES the restriction (that's why we can't swaddle despite countless revisits w/swaddling) ... its clearly what the issue is when I strap her in ... she starts quickly wiggling side to side, grunting frantically, and starts to fuss and then cry. Once I get her in the car and we get moving, she simmers down but I find that frequently, whether she's asleep or not, at stoplights, stop signs, Starbucks drive through lines, etc., she starts to fuss and cry as long as we aren't moving. I can't make the straps looser than they already are ... don't want to compromise her safety so ... with every car ride, there's a certain episode of "going off."
DD HATES the car too. I think it's moreso the fact that she feels scared and alone rather than hating the carseat. I put a mirror on the headrest in front of her carseat and it helps a little bit.
A can get hysterical at times, screaming, crying, turning red same thing with stops and red lights he cries, but kinda calm while moving....can't wait until we get over this phase!
I've had days when I'm cutting through parking lots to avoid red lights because DS gets fussy when we have to come to a stop. When we go out to dinner with him now we have to hold him because he'll have a melt down in the car seat.
Its really common and sadly they just outgrow it with time.
I can remember all 3 of my one sisters kids screaming in the car till about 5 months or so. DS does it too not always but a good chunk of the time he does.
How funny!!! I keep being told that all babies LOVE the car....not mine!!! I couldn't even take him for walks during my maternity leave because he would do the same thing....oh well, two months down, three to go I suppose
How funny!!! I keep being told that all babies LOVE the car....not mine!!!
This was me with DS. He HATED the car. I didn't go anywhere by myself unless I had to and I would sit in the back to try to entertain him when DH drove.
He was about 80% better when we turned him to face forward. To be honest, he didn't really get over the carseat aversion until he was a toddler and could get interested in things around us going by.
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my son was the same way. I've used white noise with some success ( i just turn up a static radio channel) and I bought cushions for either side of his head that attach to the straps. I loosen the straps and put him in and only tighten it at the last second. I also learned not to put him in the car if his sleepy but not asleep. but primarily it was just that once his vision improved a bit he could look around and be distracted. two days ago was the 1st time he rode in the seat awake the whole time and didn't make a peep ( 30 min ride).
My DS also hates the carseat. I no longer will going anyplace unless someone is with me and I could sit in the back with him. Hopefully this will passs soon.
maybe adjusting the seat angle might help? more inclined maybe.....i have heard of ppl buying different styles and the baby getting happy with rides. maybe you could claim a defect and return it for another one?
Re: Car=crying 90% of the time
Its really common and sadly they just outgrow it with time.
I can remember all 3 of my one sisters kids screaming in the car till about 5 months or so. DS does it too not always but a good chunk of the time he does.
Yeah my baby hates the carseat too. He doesn't mind being swaddled, but hates the carseat. I think it's just the position of sitting sort of slouched.
C'est la vie
This was me with DS. He HATED the car. I didn't go anywhere by myself unless I had to and I would sit in the back to try to entertain him when DH drove.
He was about 80% better when we turned him to face forward. To be honest, he didn't really get over the carseat aversion until he was a toddler and could get interested in things around us going by.
my son was the same way. I've used white noise with some success ( i just turn up a static radio channel) and I bought cushions for either side of his head that attach to the straps. I loosen the straps and put him in and only tighten it at the last second. I also learned not to put him in the car if his sleepy but not asleep. but primarily it was just that once his vision improved a bit he could look around and be distracted. two days ago was the 1st time he rode in the seat awake the whole time and didn't make a peep ( 30 min ride).
good luck! (1ht)