I'm 27. I guess it depends on where you are from because where I live everyone thinks I'm so young lol. I'm the first of all my friends to get married and now have a baby.
Natural BFP - 2/13/10, Natural M/C - 3/9/10 (Missed m/c found at 8wks 4days)
Prenatal B/W shows I'm a Beta Thal carrier & so is DH. Onto IVF w/PGD...
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Mar 2011 - IVF #2 - Day 5 PGD, no ET, 5 snow babies
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Math tells me I'm 23, but I could have sworn that I was 24. Well, I will be by the time the kiddo gets here. Hubby is 27. This was great timing for us. We knew we wanted kids and soon, so we made our only rule "we'd like to be married for a year before any kids pop out." He has a great job and so do I, but I'm in grad school too. I think that I'll get spoiled staying home with the baby this fall, and I've been campaigning to stay home and just finish my masters. That's the plan right now. My classes are only on the weekend and only 2x a semester per class so we wouldn't need daycare.
I'm 30 now and will be 31 when I deliver. 28 isn't old or young to start. With so many women waiting and working until they're in their 30s you're actually a little early. I know how it feels to feel a little "late" though. My husband and I got married at 23 and everyone expected us to start our family right away. But we waited and I'm so glad because now we're financially and emotionally ready to be parents.
I think it really depends on your own social circle. Like all my friends who are LDS were having babies at 20 and 22, but that was part of their society. Marry young, babies young.
I'm 31, and I'm married for two years, and I've got a few friends my age who've just had them, and a few friends who are thinking about starting, and a few friends who aren't even married yet, so I figure I'm right in that time for my social circle.
The moment a child is born,
the mother is also born.
She never existed before.
The woman existed, but the mother, never.
A mother is something absolutely new.
I turned 29 about a month after I conceived. DH will be 33 about a month before the baby is born.
Part of me feels like I am too young, as in, I don't feel like a grown up yet. Which is weird because I have been married for almost 4 years now. Have been taking care of myself since well before that. Pay my own bills, have two stepsons, and generally a responsible person .... I just don't feel like a grown up.
And then the other part of me thinks about the number ... 29 .... I wanted to be done having children by the time I was 30, and I definitely want more than one, but don't want them right after each other. So it is kind of a mind blow that I am almost 30 and just starting.
I'll be 38. Honestly, how is 28 old to be starting a family?
I don't think anyone should take offense to this... It's a proven fact that most people have their children at 25? I think that is what I heard on the news the other day. Our eggs are less and less every day! So I know what she is saying by 28 being late. Luckily people have children a lot later now and there are some plus sides to that and as in my case sometimes life doesn't go your way...
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oh and im not saying anyone is old either, just to clear the air! We wanted to wait til we were older but that wasnt what the big man had in store for us!
TTC #1 since June 2009: irregular cycles
BFP 1/20/10, EDD 9/28/10, born 10/5/10
TTC #2 since Nov 2011:
BFP 2/8/12, MC @ 5 weeks; BFP 3/22/12, MC @ 5 1/2 weeks; BFP 9/10/12, MC @ 6 weeks
Started seeing RE Nov 2012. Chromosomal test and all other tests came back "normal". Unexplained MCs. Found mild hytpothyroidism.
Two unmedicated cycles, both BFNs.
First medicated cycle (clomid, ovidrel) 1/23/13. Low progesterone found during 9DPO P4 test = 7.6. Put on prometrium supplements.
Re: Age of first time moms!
I am , and still will be, 30 when I deliver.
31
H will be 35
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I'm 30 now and will be 31 when I deliver. 28 isn't old or young to start. With so many women waiting and working until they're in their 30s you're actually a little early. I know how it feels to feel a little "late" though. My husband and I got married at 23 and everyone expected us to start our family right away. But we waited and I'm so glad because now we're financially and emotionally ready to be parents.
I think it really depends on your own social circle. Like all my friends who are LDS were having babies at 20 and 22, but that was part of their society. Marry young, babies young.
I'm 31, and I'm married for two years, and I've got a few friends my age who've just had them, and a few friends who are thinking about starting, and a few friends who aren't even married yet, so I figure I'm right in that time for my social circle.
BFP:11/1/11 EDD: 7/3/12 M/C:11/22/11 8w1d
BFP: 5/23/12 EDD: 2/2/13
31 - I thought for sure Id have a couple before 30, but life doesn't always work out that way. Now I just want to try to have them all done by 35!
I'm 33 and my husband is 32 -
- I have no idea what the right age for having your first child is, as I think everyone's situation is different.
Congratulations to all!!!
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The moment a child is born, the mother is also born. She never existed before. The woman existed, but the mother, never. A mother is something absolutely new.
Feeling ancient as I type this!!! We started late (we met and married in 2009), but better late than never!
I'll be 35 on Wednesday (3/3) & hubby will be 44 on 3/14. EDD 10/31
I turned 29 about a month after I conceived. DH will be 33 about a month before the baby is born.
Part of me feels like I am too young, as in, I don't feel like a grown up yet. Which is weird because I have been married for almost 4 years now. Have been taking care of myself since well before that. Pay my own bills, have two stepsons, and generally a responsible person .... I just don't feel like a grown up.
And then the other part of me thinks about the number ... 29 .... I wanted to be done having children by the time I was 30, and I definitely want more than one, but don't want them right after each other. So it is kind of a mind blow that I am almost 30 and just starting.
I don't think anyone should take offense to this... It's a proven fact that most people have their children at 25? I think that is what I heard on the news the other day. Our eggs are less and less every day! So I know what she is saying by 28 being late. Luckily people have children a lot later now and there are some plus sides to that and as in my case sometimes life doesn't go your way...
I had just turned 27 when I had DS (this is considered young for this area).
I'll be 29 when LO #2 comes.
I'm 24 and DH is 25
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TTC #1 since June 2009: irregular cycles
BFP 1/20/10, EDD 9/28/10, born 10/5/10
TTC #2 since Nov 2011:
BFP 2/8/12, MC @ 5 weeks; BFP 3/22/12, MC @ 5 1/2 weeks; BFP 9/10/12, MC @ 6 weeks
Started seeing RE Nov 2012. Chromosomal test and all other tests came back "normal". Unexplained MCs. Found mild hytpothyroidism. Two unmedicated cycles, both BFNs. First medicated cycle (clomid, ovidrel) 1/23/13. Low progesterone found during 9DPO P4 test = 7.6. Put on prometrium supplements.
BFP 2/16/13; 2/18/13 (13 dpo): Beta #1=52.8, progesterone=18.7; estrogen = 412; Dr. increased progesterone dosage.
2/21/13 (16 dpo): Beta #2 = 269; progesterone = 32.4
2/25/13 (20 dpo): Beta #3 = 1,236
2/28/13 (23 dpo): Beta #4 = ?? tbd