After my c-section and pre-e I have decided there is no way I am getting pregnant again. When it's time to have another child, we have decided looking into adoption.
I am terrified of getting pregnant again. I would never terminate if I did get pregnant, but it would be a very stressful situation.
Anyone else feel like this or are you open to getting pregnant again?
Re: Anyone terrified of getting pregnant again?
anytime soon, yes, ever again, no.
BFP 12/19/08- DS born 8/25/09 9lbs2oz via Zavanelli Maneuver
BFP 8/26/11- Missed miscarriage discovered 10/19/11 at 11w2d, measured at 9 weeks gestation w/ no HB. D&C 10/21/11
BFP 3/17/12 at 12dpo CP 3/21/12
BFP 4/23/12 at 10dpo Stick my little one! Beta #1: 83.3 @ 13dpo Beta #2: 197.7 @ 15dpo
Our little man is getting bigger every day!
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Nope. Can't wait!! If I had some help I'd do it again NOW.
I feel the same way.
please, you are only 2 weeks PP! I'm just now starting to feel like I wouldn't totally die if I had another kid at some point. And the risk of Pre-E goes down with 2nd pgs. You don't have to decide anything any time soon! Wait a year atleast and see how you feel then!
I still want 1 more but in like 2+ years.
BFP #2 11/4/12 EDD 7/20/12 missed M/C 12/13/12 @8w5d D&C 12/21/12
DX 2/7/13 with an alloimmunity + for anti-paternal antibodies started Lovenox daily & BA
BFP 2/16/13 EDD 10/28/13
Ditto this exactly. I had pre-e and an emergency c/s where I had to be put under general anesthesia b/c my blood wasn't clotting. So I had my share of complications. At 2 weeks pp there was no way I was thinking of having another kid. You're just so hormonal and still recovering from what you went through. But, a couple of weeks ago I started missing being pregnant and thinking how great it would be to do it all again!
We need to wait at least a little while b/c I'm finishing up my PhD. And there's no way to do that with 2 babies. But once I'm finished an in a job situation, we will be back on the baby bandwagon.
I would be scared if we got pregnant right now only because I have already had 2 c-sections, each due to Pre-E. Baby 1 was born at 38w and baby 2 was born at 35w5d...are we noticing a downward trend here?
My Dr. advised me to wait at least a year to insure that my uterus is strong enough to carry a baby to term and to give me time to get some weight off because women who are over weight have a highter occurance of pre-e.
Other then that, I could get pregnant right now and not worry about it at all.
I had a dream last night that I was pregnant and it was a boy! After having 2 girls, we have to try one more time to get that boy but it just cant be right now.
DD1: 9 DD2: 6
Due date Aug 3, 2019
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Oh, I thought you meant NOW. I am terrified of getting pregnant right away!
I do want another child in the future though. I am not sure how I will manage a toddler and another difficult pregnancy but I'll figure it out.