I'm going to shave. Don't need it looking like a jungle down there!
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If I can't see it, I'm not shaving it, or waxing for that matter (plus I hear waxing hurts more when you're pg). I'm giving a slight trim and that's about it. I am however looking forward to my first waxing after the baby arrives.
Natural like normal. I do my bikini line in summer. Way too much irritation otherwise. I figure I am going to have enough ouchies. If you are used to waxing or shaving and it doesn't bother you go for whatever makes you happy.
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I have been shaving and will continue. I would not shave if you never have because it can be really irritating at first until your skin is used to the feel. Waxing hurts more than ever right now - I get my eyebrows and lip - and I dread it everytime - lip much more than eyebrows. If you are unsure I would do nothing or maybe some trimming. Personally, I like nothing down there (year round), but that is just me!
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Thank you ladies. This is really helpful. I didn't know waxing hurt more while pregnant. I am already going thru the pressure in my pelvic bone right about now, so it looks like I will forgo waxing. . . .don't need to add to the suffering.
I have been trimming so I will keep on doing that and then plan for a full shave as it gets closer to the day. I figured with all the work that is done down there, it's just easier without hair getting in the way, specially with the bloody days that follow
This makes me laugh. I remember this being asked on 1st tri and people had a fit at the thought of not being groomed as normal. The Horrors! of not shaving or waxing
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I have continued to wax during my pregnancy and honestly, it doesn't hurt much more at all. You bleed more, of course, but that is all that I have experienced that was different.
my doctor told me not shave. if you accidentally cut some skin, it can lead to infection during or after birth. so i would say trim carefully, but don't do anything too crazy.
I just waxed this weekend because I couldn't take it anymore. I just did a regular bikini wax and then the waxer lady trimmed everything super short for me so I wouldn't have such a mess to deal with post birth. She just had a baby 12 mos ago and said it made post birth cleanups a lot easier. I didn't notice that the wax hurt anymore than usual but the place I go gives you some lidocaine numbing spray and I did not get a brazilian (I think that would be too painful). I would shave though, too much risk of razor burn or cuts for me.
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If you are used to waxing or shaving and it doesn't bother you go for whatever makes you happy.
i would stick with a neat trim if you really care that much. you reallllllly don't want to deal with itchy stubble when you are a bloody healing mess.
and the last thing your dr, your nurses, or YOU will care about is the state of your pubic hair.
Thank you ladies. This is really helpful. I didn't know waxing hurt more while pregnant. I am already going thru the pressure in my pelvic bone right about now, so it looks like I will forgo waxing. . . .don't need to add to the suffering.
I have been trimming so I will keep on doing that and then plan for a full shave as it gets closer to the day. I figured with all the work that is done down there, it's just easier without hair getting in the way, specially with the bloody days that follow
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and really, hair doesn't get in the way of anything. unless yours is 12 inches long or something?
Amen to this! I plan to trim but I'm not going to shave and be all itchy. And I don't want to spend money on a wax.
I have continued to wax during my pregnancy and honestly, it doesn't hurt much more at all. You bleed more, of course, but that is all that I have experienced that was different.