When we were dating DH was very romantic. Now? Not so much....like isn't at all. We never go out just us (just for example last week was the 1st time we went to the movies since 2007...yeah it's sad). My mom watches DS during the day so we feel guilty asking her to watch him on the weekends and DH's family has NEVER asked/offered to watch DS.
Anyway, I just feel like DH just sees me as Noah's mom...not his wife. KWIM? I know things were bound to change but even for events (like V-day and anniversaries) he still isn't romantic. What gives!
So, is your DH romantic?
Re: Is your DH romantic?
Yeah DH has been sucking big time with holidays. It really hurts my feelings.
This exact same thing happened to us! I think I killed his chivalry. But the door thing was annoying!
He used to be! I used to come home from work (on special ocassions) and find paths of rose petals to the bedroom, candle light dinners (usually pizza, the man can't cook to save his life)... he also did all the cleaning afterwars, including picking up the petals from the floor! lol
After marriage... uh... he got me flowers once and i complained for a week abut him spending $120.00 on the arrangement. Got me chocolates on V-day and I asked if he was trying to make me fat?... Yeah... I think I've killed the romantic in him. Ooops!
I'm jealous! Send him to me! J/k!
He was never really all that romantic. I am! lol Ahh he has been lacking in certain depts., we've been together for a long time you would think he knows what to get me or at least know what I like. 'sigh So I actually have to hint to him what I like. Romance = Fail haha
I will say this though, he's stepped up in other places. He's become a better husband, is a lot more patient, cooks (I thought the day would never come) and washes my car, does the laundry. He basically goes above and beyond on little things that add up so that makes it romantic for me because he tries to make things easier for me without me ever asking!