Minnesota Babies
Need to vent.....
Well to start off I am pregnant with our third child and have been with my fiance for 8 years. We have been engaged for 2 years officially but I cant get him to set a date. I have offered that we could go to Vegas or just go to the courthouse but he thinks that's not what I want. I tell him after these many years and three children later I just want us to be married.
What is wrong with him or me? I'm so tired of waiting and I have told him that. All he tells me is he does love me and that we will get married soon. Well your soon is not soon enough for me. Am I in the wrong for wanting this? I really want for us to get married next year but how can I get him on board with that? Lost and confused!!! 
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Re: Need to vent.....
Why is he hesitant to set a date? Is it really ONLY because he thinks you wont get the wedding you want? I dunno, I think there's something else going on to fuel his hesitations, but I could be wrong. You could also express to him that being married to him -- no matter how it is done -- is what you want, not necessarily the big, frilly wedding.
Or, if it's the party he thinks you want (or he wants), why not get married in a court house or Vegas and come back and plan a reception at a later date?