I really like the name Ariel, which is a traditional Hebrew boys' name (e.g. Ariel Sharon or the character from The Tempest). I like that it's Hebrew, since I am Jewish, albeit very secular, and it also fits our important criteria of being easily pronounced in both English and Spanish. He could go by Ari for short.
But has it gone too far over to the girls' side? Did the Little Mermaid kill it forever? Could it still be seen as a unisex name?
On a feminist level, it annoys me that it's fine and even trendy for girls to have unisex or masculine names, but a boy cannot have a name that may be construed as too feminine. I feel like that sends the subtle message that girls are still worth less than boys. But on a practical level, I don't want to give a child a name that could get him teased forever. Cultural values matter.
Re: Boys' names that go to the girls' side
For most people I am sure the little mermaid pulls it to the girls side. If I heard that a boy had that name I wouldn't think it was weird. But since that movie came out a LONG time ago, most kids today may not even know about the little mermaid who are his age.
I think Ariel is probably more girly, but Ari is definitely not. ?I knew a few Aris growing up. ?
Any others that you're considering??
We have a few other names we are thinking of, but it's hard to meet the English/Spanish criteria, especially for boys. Nothing that I love so far. I'm not pg but I have this gut feeling our next will be a boy! LOL
Am I the only one who thinks it was probably Footloose that started to ruin this name for boys? Although the Little Mermaid definitely was the final nail in the coffin so to speak.
It also bugs me a lot that boys' names get turned into girls'. We named DS a name that's used a lot for girls but IMO it's very masculine. But I still get people who ask, "boy Cameron or girl Cameron?" on the phone.
I know a lot of Jewish guys with this name, so it's not weird for me to hear it as a guy's name. ?I think the boy version is pronounced more like "Ahhh-riel" where the girl version is more "Air-riel" if that makes sense.
I like the name a lot. ?What about Avi for a boy? ?I like that name too!?