rude bumpies...
It was a simple question, and since it was about weight gain totals during the pregnancy and after, I didn't think that it was wrong to post it in 0-6months. But apparently a few people wanted to waste space and time by commenting on a previous post. And I should be grown up about it, and not respond childishly, but honestly.
if your opinon of someone's post is so negative, there's no need to respond. And It's not just happened to me. I've seen a post that had someone call another person all sorts of horrid names that was more than unneccessary. So (wow this turned into a Public Service Announcement) please consider what you're about to say to a person before you say it. Or comment on something or whatever.
Maybe you insensitive types have forgotten, but we are human too with feelings, and being pregnant just makes those feelings twice as sensitive to words. So yea...
I'm done
Re: rude bumpies...
You are not going to change the dynamic of the boards. There are certain posts/questions that just automatically lend themselves to flaming - if you can't handle that from time to time, then don't post.?
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Isn't this the second time you've posted something like this?
Just ignore the comments you don't like. Posting stuff like this only fuels the fire.
THIS!
I'm actually surprised at how many nice comments you got, considering the way that weight posts are taken around here. ?
Stuff like that happens to everyone at least once. You just have to deal with it.
Posts like this aren't going to change anything.
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See - she was smart, she gave in AND she gets to eat cookies. That is using your noggin, this post however..... ?::yawn::?
I personally find this whole situation very?comical!
A group on women all very?hormonal bullying on other hormonal women!LOL.... it is like being in High Schol again!
Maybe I find it more amusing because it is interesting how emotional ppl can get just by typed words on the internet. I guess it?demonstrates the evolving importance of internet communities as a form of social connections.....I guess the point is with online?communities?or in-person relationships,?there can be a?difference?in?opinions expressed respectfully versus a being rude and vindictive to someone else's feelings or genuine question/concern. ??
cookies tend to be a great negotiation piece and often turns people...more so the double choco types...