My Mom is the loose cannon in my family. I have cared for her since I was 14 years old and she still requires the care of a teenager today. We now live in different towns, 2 hours apart. She is a chain smoking, pill popping alcoholic and has numerous health issues due to her chosen lifestyle. She is also mentally unstable and refuses to take her meds. I am scheduled for RCS on the 31st and it was planned that they, her and my grandmother would drive in that morning and stay the night at my house leaving the next day. Now they are wanting to come the day before. I'm not looking forward to spending that last day pregnant caring for my mom and her issues as well as my grandmother who has Alzheimer's. I love them both but it's a ton of work! My Mom loves to pick fights and play the victim and I just don't know if I can handle it while trying to get ready for the birth of my baby the next day! Sorry so long, just needed to vent.