Im hosting a big dinner in a few weeks. Im going to do a BBQ theme. I dont think im going to actually BBQ the food, since I want everything to be prepared beforehand, but I will make BBQ chicken or something like that. Im looking for ideas for food and decorations that are fairly simple. Its the weekend before we leave for our big trip, so I really want to keep it simple. But its a special dinner for a close family friend who will have just gotten married, so I want it to be nice too. So what are some ideas for food that I could do (appetizer, main and dessert). And what are some decor things that I can do? Keep in mind that nothing can be dairy, but I can use dairy substitutes such as soy milk.