I'm sorry for anyone who takes this the wrong way, but I felt a need to express something which has been bothering me.
There are a lot of women on this board who have been struggling for a VERY long time TTC. They come here to offer support to one another. If you have not taken the time to interact with anyone here and get to know them or let them get to know you, please do not post a drive by bfp. You may have been lurking for a long time and you may have found it a great source of comfort to read other people's posts, but if you did not participate in an at least somewhat active manner, suddenly posting your bfp feels like a giant slap in the face. I know I don't speak for everyone and many find inspiration seeing success stories, but for many it just feels really insensitive getting hit with an in your face bfp from someone who never took the time to introduce themselves and offer support to others.
If you are a lurker and you get your bfp everyone is very happy for you and wishes you the best, but please come on over to PG35 and introduce yourself there, we will welcome you. No disrespect intended to the ladies who recently posted, I just think a little board etiquette needs to be pointed out for the sake of the ladies who are struggling. Thank you.
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Me:40, DH:39 First miscarriage, age 19, 1992. Lost twin pregnancy resulting in D&C, age 38, 2011. Blighted ovum resulting in D&C, age 39, 2012. Natural miscarriage, age 39, 2012. Positive for MTHFR mutations- one copy C677T, one copy A1298C. Still hoping for a healthy pregnancy.