Two weeks ago, I switched to a new reproductive endocronologist, and I love this new practice!
He diagnosed me with secondary infertility. It was no surprise but still hard to hear.
I did all the testing (needles yuck) and an HSG, no worse than a pap. My tube and uterus are all clear phew!
DH has testing and then we find out what else may be wrong and what the strategy will be to help us get pregnant again.
The Dr. was great, very encouraging and thinks I need just a little help and feels very optimistic.
I have days where I feel optimistic too, other days where I feel sad and wishing we didn't loose the baby this winter. Some days I feel great being a family of 3 and others where I just feel incomplete.
Having 2IF is an odd experience because I clearly carried a baby to term and have been pregnant since. So folks (well meaning) ask when Isabel will become a big sister. No one knows I m/c'd and I can't just drop that on people so I just smile and say someday. Its hard not to feel like a failure but I feel just so very blessed for having had Isabel.
Ok, well I just thought I would update since I haven't said much about this and saw Egeiger mention me in her post.