So we're 18 weeks along. No sex, not since my husband found out we were expecting at 3 weeks. He says he's just not turned on and is creeped out that we'd be having sex when the baby is present.
The thing is..... We hardly ever had sex before. With our first child, we had sex up to the 7th month.
So I'm not asking for advice of why he's not interested I've asked before and husband says he's just not interested could be a number of reasons stress, just not interested bc of bis or my weight gain, etc. I really don't know and he's not wanting to talk.
Sex is wonderful and needed for a marriage. We dont have sex. I feel very rejected. He doesn't show me in other ways that he's even interested in me as a person either. So much for marrying my best friend. It's been quite lonely to say the least.
But I'm asking, how am I suppose to feel confident about our relationship with baby 2 on the way when I don't feel sexy, pretty, wanted, or respected by him? When we do talk, his concerns are not with me, but on his job/himself. I feel very alone with this pregnancy and I talk to him but nothing changes.
Sorry I needed to vent. I feel so alone and don't know who to talk to about this...... I'm so embarrassed.