I am really struggling lately with FI's role in my son's life. This is one of the many reasons I resent BD so much. I hate having to rely on FI to help me with DS. I hate having a man who isn't his father in that role and disciplining him. I am grateful for the help but it just is so hard to accept. For example yesterday my son told him, "you are so mean." Which he is only three so he says stuff like that sometimes. And my FI responded somewhat harshly to him and said I don't like you talking to me that way. Which I guess is fine, but it's really hard for me to listen to him talk to MY son that way. Like I said I am grateful to have him there. I just don't know if I'll ever stop wishing it was his real dad there. Did anyone else experience this?
"How often does the other woman get a happy ending?" Chuck Bass, Gossip Girl