Background: first baby for us both, planning to go unmedicated, husband is really stubborn.
So I have been looking into hiring a doula and my husband thinks that he can handle anything the doula would do. I think he is going to turn into such a mess he may be useless.
For you STMs, how did your SO do when it came time for delivery and such? Would it have been nice to have extra help or did he remin competent?