The baby shower board scares me, especially on this topic.
But who all had a second baby shower? I feel like people think I am nuts when I tell them I am not having a second shower. Like my generation just expects them? I dont feel like it is appropriate. Our son is barely 3, we have all the baby stuff except diapers and clothes which I dont expect people to buy. The people who really want to bless us with gifts will do it with or with out a shower.
Anyway, if you didn't have a shower and people asked how did you nicely tell them no with out seeming rude or an etiquette snob like me LOL.