Pregnant after a Loss

When did your RE release you?

My old RE clinic wouldnt release me until 12 weeks. My new RE clinic wants to release me at 7 weeks after my next appointment. I am not happy. I dont want to go. I lost my first babies at 10ish weeks after strong heartbeats and i am just not ready for less care. I know i am being stubborn but 7 weeks seems really early. What have been your experiences.

Married 11/27/09 and TTC right away
Dx: Complete septate uterus with cervical duplication, endometrial polyps, PCOS, endometriosis, hypo thyroid, luteal phase defect
4 uterus surgeries to correct my complete septum and to remove polyps and 2 years of seeing the RE, medicated cycles and IUIs
Baby 1 and 2: BFP 3/3/11 with 2 babies EDD 11/1/11, M/C 4/6/11
Baby #3: 8/11 pregnant EDD 4/27/11 and m/c:(
Baby #4: 10/12/11 BFP! EDD 6/16/12m/c 10/26/11
Baby #5: 3/13/12 BFP! EDD 11/25/12 ANOTHER m/c :(

Baby #6: 2/14/13- BFP! EDD 10/24/13, CP 2/19/13
Baby #7: 3/15/13- BFP! EDD 11/27/13, another CP
Baby #8.  BFP 5/19/13 EDD 1/22/14. 8 was not our lucky number

4th septum resection on 5/31/13.
Baby #9: 6/29/13 BFP. C section scheduled for March 5th!

My miracle baby was born March 5 at 9:33am. He was 8 lbs 12.5 oz and 21.25 inches long!

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Re: When did your RE release you?

  • I graduated at 11 weeks 5 days. Will your OB do an extra ultrasound near 10 weeks to ease your mind?

    ETA fixed weeks, I'm sorry I had a comprehension fail.

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     My RE wanted to release me after my first u/s at 7 weeks and I refused. I know they can ultimately do what they want but I poured it on big time so that I could stick around. They agreed and I ended up getting another ultrasound at 9 weeks before I was released to my OB. I would definitely push to stick around for at least after 10 weeks.

    Wishing you the very best for this pregnancy hun!! xoxox

     

     

     

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  • My RE released me after we saw a heartbeat, so 6w4d, with prescriptions to carry me through their recommended course program to 12 weeks. I had my first OB appointment at 7w4d - I had to request it be earlier than their standard 10w first appointment though because I wanted to make sure I had a point of contact given my history and being on medications, which they happily scheduled me for. My OB then referred me to the MFM for a 9 week consult since I am on Lovenox.

    Also, my first loss was at 12w, after seeing a strong heartbeat. 

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  • I was technically released at 7w4d, but I couldn't get into my OB until 11 weeks.  My RE agreed to keep seeing me until I saw my OB, without issue.  It made me feel better, especially since I had a missed m/c at 8w previously and was scheduled to stop progesterone and estrogen at 10 weeks.

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    DH: 38 w/LowT and borderline morph
    18 cycles, 3 medicated w/RE to get to a BFP!
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  • I was released at 9.5 weeks after my second ultrasound and numerous blood draws. 



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  • I was released at 8 weeks but my RE called my OB and demanded he give me extra u/s, otherwise - I think she would have kept us longer. My RE is two hours away and my OB is right here in town so I think that also had something to do with the decision to move at 8 weeks.

    Its such a scary move! (((HUGS)))

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  • I graduated at 7w2d after two ultrasounds. But my OB was really good about giving extra care. I ended up with 3 more ultrasounds under her care in the first trimester and she referred me to an MFM where they kept an even closer eye on me so I never felt neglected. Talk to your RE and see if they'll see you more often and if not then talk to your OB about your concerns. Hopefully someone will listen.

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  • My RE released me at 8 weeks. I had my 10 weeks appt at which they did a quick ultrasound. My OBGYN has been amazing with making sure I feel good about this pregnancy. I didn't ask for that ultrasound at 10 weeks and she scheduled it anyway. Then I had my NT scan and then another ultrasound at 16 weeks to make sure my cervix looked good. And then I had my AS at 18 weeks. So I def feel like I'm by no means getting less care of attention. If you don't feel comfortable with your OBGYN look for another. Wishing you all the best!
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    My RE released me at 8 weeks. I had my 10 weeks appt at which they did a quick ultrasound. My OBGYN has been amazing with making sure I feel good about this pregnancy. I didn't ask for that ultrasound at 10 weeks and she scheduled it anyway. Then I had my NT scan and then another ultrasound at 16 weeks to make sure my cervix looked good. And then I had my AS at 18 weeks. So I def feel like I'm by no means getting less care of attention. If you don't feel comfortable with your OBGYN look for another. Wishing you all the best!

    Im in the military so unfortunately I dont get a choice :(. After almost crying on the phone the OB people decided that i could get an appointment at  9 weeks instead of 10 which is their usual.  The good thing is my RE is the department head for the entire OB/GYN department and I text her constantly so she will probably help me, well i hope so.

    Married 11/27/09 and TTC right away
    Dx: Complete septate uterus with cervical duplication, endometrial polyps, PCOS, endometriosis, hypo thyroid, luteal phase defect
    4 uterus surgeries to correct my complete septum and to remove polyps and 2 years of seeing the RE, medicated cycles and IUIs
    Baby 1 and 2: BFP 3/3/11 with 2 babies EDD 11/1/11, M/C 4/6/11
    Baby #3: 8/11 pregnant EDD 4/27/11 and m/c:(
    Baby #4: 10/12/11 BFP! EDD 6/16/12m/c 10/26/11
    Baby #5: 3/13/12 BFP! EDD 11/25/12 ANOTHER m/c :(

    Baby #6: 2/14/13- BFP! EDD 10/24/13, CP 2/19/13
    Baby #7: 3/15/13- BFP! EDD 11/27/13, another CP
    Baby #8.  BFP 5/19/13 EDD 1/22/14. 8 was not our lucky number

    4th septum resection on 5/31/13.
    Baby #9: 6/29/13 BFP. C section scheduled for March 5th!

    My miracle baby was born March 5 at 9:33am. He was 8 lbs 12.5 oz and 21.25 inches long!

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  • I was released at 8w4d but couldn't get in with the OB until this Friday at 11w6d. My RE did an u/s for me at 9w6d because I was convinced something was wrong and offered to accommodate me until I see the OB. Hopefully yours will work with you since you have a good relationship with her!  
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  • I graduated after two good u/s at around 7 weeks
    TTC Since Oct 08 BFP #1- 1/23/09, missed m/c 2/26/09 BFP #2- 9/8/09, natural m/c 9/16/09 BFP #3- 4/13/10, missed m/c 5/26/10 BFP #4- 4/6/11 beta#1 at 12dpo-133 prog-55.7, beta#2 at 16dpo- 861 DD born 12/8/2011 BFP#5- 11/23/12 EDD 7/25/13 Dx- Uterine septum (removed Aug 2010), endo, MTHFR C677t hetero, Factor II hetero, Low Protein S Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
  • 8 weeks, I got an early MW appt b/c we already knew it was twins.  You could get an early OB or MW appt given your history for sure.  FX and (hugs)
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  • Right at 9 weeks last time and 12 weeks this time (b/c of my loss and having twins.)

    7 weeks seems a little early, but they are all different I guess.


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    Hysteroscopy-8/9/12-blocked left tube for sure, proceeding with IUI#1
    IUI#1 (Gonal-F + trigger)=BFP#2 m/c @ 19w1d D&E 1/23/13
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