DH was talking to a friend of ours yesterday. His wife is due soon w/their first baby. He was asking DH if he knew of any job opportunities b/c they are looking to move soon. Then proceeds to say (and I quote) "We need to find a different situation because we want to do more than 'day care parenting' ". WTF? DH was literally speechless. Finally he said, "well, if you can figure out a way to make that work for you, that's awesome". But, seriously...what does that even mean? Plus, the kid isn't even here yet. Ugh, so annoying. We might be hanging out with them a little less .