Sorry if these are stupid questions but I am a FTM and I have some questions about my DD's first birthday party, we are on a tight budget and plan to do it at my sisters house because she has more room. Do I have to have a theme? What decorations "should" I have? DF thinks she should have a smash cupcake insread of smash cake, has anyone done a cupcake...good or bad idea? If I do a cupcake I wonder if it can be a big one. What stores should I get decorations at? I also really want to get her an outfit, hat and bib that says 1st birthday or something related...where can I find these? Any helpful hints or ideas are very greatly appreciated! TIA!!