I'm expecting a boy (our 3rd). We have been having a hard time coming up with a name. Everyone knows this. Well recently one of my uncles passed away. My family keeps asking if we are going to name our baby after him. They're not demanding that we do it. They just keep saying it would be nice. I agree but his name is very ethnic and it totally sounds silly with our last name. The name is Vitalino. Our last name is a Van name, like Van Zandt or Van Gogh. I don't think it works. I feel bad because Vitalino was also my grandfather's name. I am thinking I could use as a NM, but I would need a good FN to tie the other names together. Any suggestions?