If you use a babysitter occasionally, do you contact them the day before or the day of to confirm?
I recently started using a new girl a few times, and each time I get the urge to contact her to confirm. The one time that it had been a while since I had talked to her, she actually texted me to confirm the day/time 2 days before, which was awesome. I just feel like if I do contact her, she's going to think I don't trust her or something (seriously, she was just here on Wed., when I asked if she was available tonight, and she said yes). But here I am feeling like we're going to prep the kids on her coming and putting them to bed, get all dressed up to go out (it's our anniversary) and she'll just not show up.