Here is the email I sent.
Also- we sent the email because we had people visit last time without asking or calling. We were very polite when they came- but wanted to avoid it this time.
I just got a reply from my grandma saying "I would love to come once you're home! Let me know when you're up for visitors!"
I also got one from his grandmother. It simply said "Whatever..."
I thought we would give you guys an update on our baby situation. Our C-section is scheduled (late) for August 21st. My Dr. wants me to "make it as long as I can." However, If I go into labor anytime on or after the 7th (which will most likely happen), they won't stop it with medicine anymore and they will take her then. We are both very excited and I'm ready to NOT be pregnant anymore.
Unfortunately, I'm not to travel more than around 30-45 minutes from (hospital location) after the 7th. I am okay with this, as I don't want to have a baby anywhere other than there. We have loved having visitors lately- so if you're bored shoot us a text!
Shortly after our last C- section, we decided as a family that we are going to have minimal visitors at the hospital this time. I don't do well with the meds and I was in A LOT of pain. We are going to limit the visitors to parents and siblings (and their spouses, of course!) A huge reason we are doing this is because we want to have (DD #1) in our room as much as possible so that our new little family can spend some time with the baby, just the four of us. Unfortunately, the hospital doesn't allow any children (under 18) unless it is a sibling of the baby. So that stinks too .
We would love to have you all visit once we are home and settled after we get out of the hospital and I'm not a crazy drugged- up person .
We know that she is a little girl and we have decided to name her (BABY S). The middle name is still up in the air.
We hope everything is well with all of you and your summers are going great!
With Love, (OUR FAMILY NAME)