I'm stuck in that terrible "is this PMS or pregnancy" place, so I'm not feeling well and I'm moody. DH is being an . The moment DD wakes up until the moment she goes to bed, I'm working. I get her up and dressed and breakfasted and ready to go to dc, I do the same for myself, then I drop her off and work a full day. I pick her up, home by 6, dinner for her, if DH is home I get a break while he gives her a bath, which I spend cleaning up dinner, then it's books for her and bed. Once she's asleep, I make us lunches for the next day and then, maybe, I get to relax for a little bit before I go to bed.
DH...on the other hand...slowly allows himself to wake up, will help with breakfast under duress, lounges on the couch in his pajamas until we leave, then takes a shower and goes to work. He works a full day. He comes home between 6 and whenever the hell he wants, helps with bath time if he's home, relaxes until DD is asleep, and then relaxes some more unless I specifically ask him to get something done. Then he plays WoW (because I'm married to a 17 year old) until he falls asleep.
I'm soooo tired of feeling like I'm doing the grunt work and like I never get down time. It's so frustrating to be running around the house cleaning and keeping up with DD and to watch him lounge while I do it all. SO. FRUSTRATING. I've tried talking to him about it and he doesn't get it. He points out the times I fb or bump...which is not often and I'm generally still keeping an eye on DD. Not the same as you getting so sucked into WoW that you don't hear me when I talk to you. Argh.
Sorry, needed to vent. I hope that your husbands are more helpful than mine, but I also hope they're just as bad so I don't feel so alone :).