I texted BD to remind him about court today and all I've gotten since is "poor me, nothing is ever my fault, all you want is money, I have no relationship with my son, my life is shyt and you don't understand or care"
Sorry BD your life is shyt because you made it that way. You don't see DS because YOU moved an hour and a half away. YOU put off getting him by days or weeks, YOU give up your holidays, YOU don't call or make an effort to see him other than your scheduled EOWE. YOU haven't paid the lousy $60/wk in CS. But because you're supporting your gf and her 3 kids, and then decided it was a good idea to have a baby, that means that you don't have to support DS anymore?!
Ugh, I'm so tired of him saying that everything is my fault, that I'm a horrible person for not caring about his situation, for making him do what he's supposed to do.