My shower is on Saturday and invitations went out around June 22. The RSVP date was June 6. Tonight I found out that for some reason none of my husband's family got their invites. I got one, and so did my mom and grandma, but there are about 20 people on the list who I am not sure about. I asked the hostess if she could send me a list of who had RSVP'd either way, but she works nights as a nurse so she may not answer me for a few days. Is there anything I can do or say? Should I start contacting everyone that was invited to make sure they know about it? I don't want it to seem like I am inviting them to my own shower. Should I let the hostess know so she can contact them? I don't want to make her feel bad about the invites getting lost or whatever might have happened.
And just to clarify, I am upset and worried about this because I don't want feelings hurt and I was looking forward to seeing people, not for the gifts.