Hello! I have been lurking on this board for a few weeks now. My husband and I have been married for almost 4 years now, and are expecting our first LO in January. I have a 10 year old DD from a previous marriage that my DH has been around since she was 5 and he treats her like his own.
Long story short, her dad is a POS. He moved many states away when she was young (we split before she was a year old). We haven't seen him in two years, and it was 4 years since we had seen him before that. He says he will call every week, but that may be two or three weeks apart. He breaks her heart all the time saying he will come when he knows he doesn't have the money to.
So, all that to ask of those who have BTDT, when did you tell your ex you were PG? He doesn't see me, we aren't friends on FaceBook even though he tries, and we have only one mutual friend, and they don't talk much either. I really don't care to share anything about my life with him that doesn't have to do with DD, not that he really stops talking about himself long enough on the phone calls to listen to anything we say.