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 All Aboard the Sunday Crazy Train! 

 

Welcome to Crazy Train.  This is a thread posted daily for any of us who need to get out our frustrations or vent about our cycles. 

If you find yourself checking FF obsessively, MF is getting the best of you, POAS issues, let it out here!

Crazy level from 1-10:

CD/DPO:

Can I just ______ already?!:

Signs/Symptoms:

Explain your Crazy here:

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  • KMW08KMW08
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    Do whhhhhaaaatttt!?!?

    No takers? Unbelievable :D

    I'm def a crazy person, but I don't need the train, I'll just ride along for the heck of it, cause I heart JnJ!!

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    BFP#4 3/18/14 - Please be a rainbow !!!! EDD 11/28/14 !! IT'S A BOY !!

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    Silly mobile bump!

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    Do whhhhhaaaatttt!?!?

    No takers? Unbelievable :D

    I'm def a crazy person, but I don't need the train, I'll just ride along for the heck of it, cause I heart JnJ!!

    I know! Where is everyone? This train was getting mighty lonely! Love you too, kmw!

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  • I'll sit on the train too if you don't mind me reviewing my con law notes




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    I'll sit on the train too if you don't mind me reviewing my con law notes


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                 2 doses cytotec, M/C 4/12/13.  Hcg <5 after 18.5 weeks.
    BFP #2  Baby Boy Q (BBQ): 2.5 mg Femara + trigger + progesterone.  

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  • This is the weirdest thing...don't worry I will probably join in tomorrow's.



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    BFP #2 7/17/13, EDD 3/29/14 ended in a CP on 7/22/13.
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  • ksheepksheep
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    I'll hop on the train.

    Crazy level from 110: getting close to a 9

    CD/DPO: CD10

    Can I just __have sex____ already?!:

    Signs/Symptoms: None

    Explain your Crazy here: It's been 10 days since my MC, 2 days since I stopped bleeding, and I'm going crazy having to wait 12 more days to have sex! My midwife told me we couldn't have sex until I hadn't been bleeding for two weeks. I'm trying to follow her advice, but my DH and I have been dealing with a lot of stuff with the MC and it would be such a great release to be intimate again. I'm not sure when I'll ovulate since my temps have been all over the place, so it's probably better we wait, but it's so hard to convince myself that it'll be better to wait. Ack, this is gonna be a hard 6 months TTA!
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  • J&amp;J09J&J09
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    I'll hop on the train. Crazy level from 110: getting close to a 9 CD/DPO: CD10 Can I just __have sex____ already?!: Signs/Symptoms: None Explain your Crazy here: It's been 10 days since my MC, 2 days since I stopped bleeding, and I'm going crazy having to wait 12 more days to have sex! My midwife told me we couldn't have sex until I hadn't been bleeding for two weeks. I'm trying to follow her advice, but my DH and I have been dealing with a lot of stuff with the MC and it would be such a great release to be intimate again. I'm not sure when I'll ovulate since my temps have been all over the place, so it's probably better we wait, but it's so hard to convince myself that it'll be better to wait. Ack, this is gonna be a hard 6 months TTA!

     (((Hugs))). I totally understand the need to feel close and intimate with your significant other  during this time. I'm so glad you are following your midwives' advice.  May I ask why 6 months? 

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  • Ok, I'll ride. Still mobile bumping so sorry for the paragraph. Crazy level at 11. 12DPO, CD27. Took a wondfo this afternoon, BFN. It was highly diluted nonFMU, but I have the mindset that if I was indeed KTFU, it would've been positive. I honestly have been nauseous for three days with boobs getting more sore, so I'd actually gotten my hopes up. Blah.
    BFP#1 1/31/11 ~ CK came on her due date, 10/10/11!
    BFP#2 11/20/12, EDD 7/30/13 ~ heard heartbeat at 6w2d ~ mmc discovered at 8w
    1st medicated cycle ~ 6/11/13 ~ Clomid ~ BFN
    2nd medicated cycle ~ 7/12/13 ~ Clomid and trigger shot ~ BFN
    SHG on 8/13/13 ~ uterus looked good!
    Diagnosed with DOR on 8/16/13 ~ AMH 0.27 ~ repeat AMH 0.19
    3rd medicated cycle ~ 8/9/13 ~ Femara and trigger shot ~ BFN
    4th medicated cycle ~ 9/4/13 ~ Bravelle, trigger shot, IUI ~ BFP! ~ EDD: 6/11/14 ~ heartbeat of 118 at 6w3d ~ mmc discovered at 9w1d
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    Hey ladies! I'll join you on the lonely crazy train today!

    Crazy level from 1-10: down from a 10 to about a 9.

    CD/DPO: not sure... that's the problem. see crazy explanation below.

    Can I just ______ already?!: get AF already (or a BFP would be nice but DOUBTFUL).

    Signs/Symptoms: light bright red flow after some spotting at 7DPO, but since then just random spotting and cramps.

    Explain your Crazy here: So I'm really confused and would love a chart stalk ladies. I vented yesterday about getting AF at 7DPO a couple days ago (I have been seeing her at 10DPO consistently), but since that day it stopped. I had a small amount of bright red flow, but since then only spotting and cramping. So I expected full on AF yesterday and she didn't come. Of course I POAS and got a BFN, but it was only 10DPO. I'm going crazy wondering what's happening, but I guess my main question is should I have started a new CD1 when I had the light amount of bleeding or would you wait until heavier bleeding? Maybe my luteal phase is actually getting longer now? But the random spotting/bleeding is confusing me!  Thanks ladies!

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  • J&amp;J09J&J09
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    Ok, I'll ride. Still mobile bumping so sorry for the paragraph. Crazy level at 11. 12DPO, CD27. Took a wondfo this afternoon, BFN. It was highly diluted nonFMU, but I have the mindset that if I was indeed KTFU, it would've been positive. I honestly have been nauseous for three days with boobs getting more sore, so I'd actually gotten my hopes up. Blah.

    (((hugs))) TTC can be such a mindfvck.  I hope that it was the diluted urine and just too early.  FX that you get a BFP in the next couple days.  How long is your LP normally? 

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  • J&amp;J09J&J09
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    Hey ladies! I'll join you on the lonely crazy train today!

    Crazy level from 1-10: down from a 10 to about a 9.

    CD/DPO: not sure... that's the problem. see crazy explanation below.

    Can I just ______ already?!: get AF already (or a BFP would be nice but DOUBTFUL).

    Signs/Symptoms: light bright red flow after some spotting at 7DPO, but since then just random spotting and cramps.

    Explain your Crazy here: So I'm really confused and would love a chart stalk ladies. I vented yesterday about getting AF at 7DPO a couple days ago (I have been seeing her at 10DPO consistently), but since that day it stopped. I had a small amount of bright red flow, but since then only spotting and cramping. So I expected full on AF yesterday and she didn't come. Of course I POAS and got a BFN, but it was only 10DPO. I'm going crazy wondering what's happening, but I guess my main question is should I have started a new CD1 when I had the light amount of bleeding or would you wait until heavier bleeding? Maybe my luteal phase is actually getting longer now? But the random spotting/bleeding is confusing me!
     
    Thanks ladies!

    hmm... You can get mid-cycle  bleeding.  I think only time will tell with this cycle if the bleeding was AF or "spotting". I thinks it's possible that you actually O'd a little earlier than FF is saying. This may just be a weird cycle. (((Hugs))) I can't imagine how frustrating this must be.  Maybe some the other veteran charters have some more advice.  

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  • J&amp;J09J&J09
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    I'll sit on the train too if you don't mind me reviewing my con law notes

    bugg, you are always welcome! Wink 

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    image peelester429:
    Ok, I'll ride. Still mobile bumping so sorry for the paragraph. Crazy level at 11. 12DPO, CD27. Took a wondfo this afternoon, BFN. It was highly diluted nonFMU, but I have the mindset that if I was indeed KTFU, it would've been positive. I honestly have been nauseous for three days with boobs getting more sore, so I'd actually gotten my hopes up. Blah.

    (((hugs))) TTC can be such a mindfvck. &nbsp;I hope that it was the diluted urine and just too early. &nbsp;FX that you get a BFP in the next couple days. &nbsp;How long is your LP normally?&nbsp;



    Since my D and E it's been 10 days or less, which is why they tried clomid this cycle. Happy for a longer LP, but really got my hopes up today.
    BFP#1 1/31/11 ~ CK came on her due date, 10/10/11!
    BFP#2 11/20/12, EDD 7/30/13 ~ heard heartbeat at 6w2d ~ mmc discovered at 8w
    1st medicated cycle ~ 6/11/13 ~ Clomid ~ BFN
    2nd medicated cycle ~ 7/12/13 ~ Clomid and trigger shot ~ BFN
    SHG on 8/13/13 ~ uterus looked good!
    Diagnosed with DOR on 8/16/13 ~ AMH 0.27 ~ repeat AMH 0.19
    3rd medicated cycle ~ 8/9/13 ~ Femara and trigger shot ~ BFN
    4th medicated cycle ~ 9/4/13 ~ Bravelle, trigger shot, IUI ~ BFP! ~ EDD: 6/11/14 ~ heartbeat of 118 at 6w3d ~ mmc discovered at 9w1d
  • jap618jap618
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    Oh I'll play!!!  I've been camping all week and definitely need a ticket!!!!

     

    Crazy level from 1-10: 7 and climbing...

    CD/DPO:  CD 21/ 8dpo

    Can I just ______ already?!:  Get to 12 dpo and test!!!!!  I'm trying really really really really hard to wait!!

    Signs/Symptoms:  It sounds weird but my sign is that my boobs DON'T hurt.  For the last couple of months the week before AF my PMS has included really sore boobs.  I know it's still early in the week but I'm praying it is a positive sign!!!!!!

    Explain your Crazy here:  I'm holding onto the hope of a BFP this week to make my EDD next weekend easier to handle.  I was hoping for the last thing for my last EDD and it didn't happen.  And to make it worse DH is going hiking next weekend and won't be here until later in the day on Sunday :-/  I'm just not looking forward to it.  
    Married the love of my life <3 June 18, 2011 <3 Me (28) DH (29)
    TTC #1 since June 2012
    BFP #1 6.29.12 EDD 3.12.13 MMC discovered 8.11.12 9w5d D&C 8.15.12
    BFP #2 11.2.12 EDD 7.14.13 MMC 6w5d discovered 8w6d 2 failed rounds miso D&C 12.27.12
    BFP #3 8.5.13 EDD 4.18.14 MMC 7w4d discovered 9.25.13 at 10w6d -Trisomy 13- 1 round miso & emergency D&C 10.2.13
    RPL Testing. DX Asherman's November 2013. Low AMH (0.44) January 2014. 
    Operative Hysteroscopy January 2014 to remove scar tissue.
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    Hey ladies! I'll join you on the lonely crazy train today!

    Crazy level from 1-10: down from a 10 to about a 9.

    CD/DPO: not sure... that's the problem. see crazy explanation below.

    Can I just ______ already?!: get AF already (or a BFP would be nice but DOUBTFUL).

    Signs/Symptoms: light bright red flow after some spotting at 7DPO, but since then just random spotting and cramps.

    Explain your Crazy here: So I'm really confused and would love a chart stalk ladies. I vented yesterday about getting AF at 7DPO a couple days ago (I have been seeing her at 10DPO consistently), but since that day it stopped. I had a small amount of bright red flow, but since then only spotting and cramping. So I expected full on AF yesterday and she didn't come. Of course I POAS and got a BFN, but it was only 10DPO. I'm going crazy wondering what's happening, but I guess my main question is should I have started a new CD1 when I had the light amount of bleeding or would you wait until heavier bleeding? Maybe my luteal phase is actually getting longer now? But the random spotting/bleeding is confusing me!
     
    Thanks ladies!

    hmm... You can get mid-cycle  bleeding.  I think only time will tell with this cycle if the bleeding was AF or "spotting". I thinks it's possible that you actually O'd a little earlier than FF is saying. This may just be a weird cycle. (((Hugs))) I can't imagine how frustrating this must be.  Maybe some the other veteran charters have some more advice.  

    Thanks for your input J&J! I too was wondering about ovulating earlier (which would be amazing) bc I always got +OPK on CD19 then O on CD20. This time, as you saw I got +OPK on CD17 and CD18, then supposedly didn't O until CD20 again... I've been taking vitex for 2 months and I'm wondering if that is the cause of the wonky cycle. If it is moving O forward in my cycle and AF back then that is definitely a good thing and I will just have to put up with the wonky cycle. My major freakout was if my LP was getting shorter instead of longer!

    Hope you are well J&J!


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    Oh I'll play!!! nbsp;I've been camping all week and definitely need a ticket!!!!nbsp;Crazy level from 110: 7 and climbing...CD/DPO: nbsp;CD 21/ 8dpoCan I just ______ already?!: nbsp;Get to 12 dpo and test!!!!! nbsp;I'm trying really really really really hard to wait!!Signs/Symptoms: nbsp;It sounds weird but my sign is that my boobs DON'T hurt. nbsp;For the last couple of months the week before AF my PMS has included really sore boobs. nbsp;I know it's still early in the week but I'm praying it is a positive sign!!!!!!Explain your Crazy here: nbsp;I'm holding onto the hope of a BFP this week to make my EDD next weekend easier to handle. nbsp;I was hoping for the last thing for my last EDD and it didn't happen. nbsp;And to make it worse DH is going hiking next weekend and won't be here until later in the day on Sunday :/ nbsp;I'm just not looking forward to it. nbsp;

    ::hugs:: FX you get some good news 12dpo.



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    BFP #2 7/17/13, EDD 3/29/14 ended in a CP on 7/22/13.
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    Oh I'll play!!! nbsp;I've been camping all week and definitely need a ticket!!!!nbsp;Crazy level from 110: 7 and climbing...CD/DPO: nbsp;CD 21/ 8dpoCan I just ______ already?!: nbsp;Get to 12 dpo and test!!!!! nbsp;I'm trying really really really really hard to wait!!Signs/Symptoms: nbsp;It sounds weird but my sign is that my boobs DON'T hurt. nbsp;For the last couple of months the week before AF my PMS has included really sore boobs. nbsp;I know it's still early in the week but I'm praying it is a positive sign!!!!!!Explain your Crazy here: nbsp;I'm holding onto the hope of a BFP this week to make my EDD next weekend easier to handle. nbsp;I was hoping for the last thing for my last EDD and it didn't happen. nbsp;And to make it worse DH is going hiking next weekend and won't be here until later in the day on Sunday :/ nbsp;I'm just not looking forward to it. nbsp;
    ::hugs:: FX you get some good news 12dpo.

     

    Thanks!!! 

    Married the love of my life <3 June 18, 2011 <3 Me (28) DH (29)
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    BFP #1 6.29.12 EDD 3.12.13 MMC discovered 8.11.12 9w5d D&C 8.15.12
    BFP #2 11.2.12 EDD 7.14.13 MMC 6w5d discovered 8w6d 2 failed rounds miso D&C 12.27.12
    BFP #3 8.5.13 EDD 4.18.14 MMC 7w4d discovered 9.25.13 at 10w6d -Trisomy 13- 1 round miso & emergency D&C 10.2.13
    RPL Testing. DX Asherman's November 2013. Low AMH (0.44) January 2014. 
    Operative Hysteroscopy January 2014 to remove scar tissue.
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    Oh I'll play!!!  I've been camping all week and definitely need a ticket!!!!

     

    Crazy level from 1-10: 7 and climbing...

    CD/DPO:  CD 21/ 8dpo

    Can I just ______ already?!:  Get to 12 dpo and test!!!!!  I'm trying really really really really hard to wait!!

    Signs/Symptoms:  It sounds weird but my sign is that my boobs DON'T hurt.  For the last couple of months the week before AF my PMS has included really sore boobs.  I know it's still early in the week but I'm praying it is a positive sign!!!!!!

    Explain your Crazy here:  I'm holding onto the hope of a BFP this week to make my EDD next weekend easier to handle.  I was hoping for the last thing for my last EDD and it didn't happen.  And to make it worse DH is going hiking next weekend and won't be here until later in the day on Sunday :-/  I'm just not looking forward to it.  

    Keeping my FX for you!  (((Hugs))) EDD are hard.  Be gentle on yourself that day.  

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  • Crazy level from 1-10: 7

    CD/DPO: 7 possibly? 

    Can I just __have sex__ already?!:

    Signs/Symptoms: Still bleeding from D&C on 6/4/13

    Explain your Crazy here: I am STILL bleeding. It will be 5 weeks on Tuesday and I have no clue wether I started my period or am still going from the procedure. I was also told to wait 6 weeks for "pelvic rest" before we had sex again. I'm about to explode! It had already been about 2 months since DH and I were able to have sex because he managed to get ringworm on his groin and I refused to let him touch me until he got it cleared up. Also, I'm so sick of hearing people say that maybe the miscarriage was for the best and that the babies maybe had something wrong with them. I don't think that is the case, I truly think that my cervix couldn't hold twins. Ugh, rant over! 
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    Crazy level from 110: 7CD/DPO: 7 possibly?nbsp;Can I just __have sex__ already?!:Signs/Symptoms: Still bleeding from Damp;C on 6/4/13Explain your Crazy here: I am STILL bleeding. It will be 5 weeks on Tuesday and I have no clue wether I started my period or am still going from the procedure. I was also told to wait 6 weeks for "pelvic rest" before we had sex again. I'm about to explode! It had already been about 2 months since DH and I were able to have sex because he managed to get ringworm on his groin and I refused to let him touch me until he got it cleared up.nbsp;Also, I'm so sick of hearing people say that maybe the miscarriage was for the best and that the babies maybe had something wrong with them. I don't think that is the case, I truly think that my cervix couldn't hold twins. Ugh, rant over!nbsp;

    Ugh I hate when ppl say that, I think we all do. Just shut up and say you're sorry for our loss!!! I'm sorry you're still bleeding have u checked with your dr about this? Seems like a long time to still be bleeding... FX it stops soon and you can get back in the game.

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    Crazy level from 110: 7CD/DPO: 7 possibly?nbsp;Can I just __have sex__ already?!:Signs/Symptoms: Still bleeding from Damp;C on 6/4/13Explain your Crazy here: I am STILL bleeding. It will be 5 weeks on Tuesday and I have no clue wether I started my period or am still going from the procedure. I was also told to wait 6 weeks for "pelvic rest" before we had sex again. I'm about to explode! It had already been about 2 months since DH and I were able to have sex because he managed to get ringworm on his groin and I refused to let him touch me until he got it cleared up.nbsp;Also, I'm so sick of hearing people say that maybe the miscarriage was for the best and that the babies maybe had something wrong with them. I don't think that is the case, I truly think that my cervix couldn't hold twins. Ugh, rant over!nbsp;
    Ugh I hate when ppl say that, I think we all do. Just shut up and say you're sorry for our loss!!! I'm sorry you're still bleeding have u checked with your dr about this? Seems like a long time to still be bleeding... FX it stops soon and you can get back in the game.

    Exactly! I am still in the phase where I avoid most people unless I have to talk to them. No, I am going to call tomorrow because I can't figure out what is what. I was told it could be 2-4 weeks but we are passed that now. I just to get back to normal and start trying again! 

  • ksheepksheep
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    I'll hop on the train.

    Crazy level from 110: getting close to a 9

    CD/DPO: CD10

    Can I just __have sex____ already?!:

    Signs/Symptoms: None

    Explain your Crazy here: It's been 10 days since my MC, 2 days since I stopped bleeding, and I'm going crazy having to wait 12 more days to have sex! My midwife told me we couldn't have sex until I hadn't been bleeding for two weeks. I'm trying to follow her advice, but my DH and I have been dealing with a lot of stuff with the MC and it would be such a great release to be intimate again. I'm not sure when I'll ovulate since my temps have been all over the place, so it's probably better we wait, but it's so hard to convince myself that it'll be better to wait. Ack, this is gonna be a hard 6 months TTA!

    (((Hugs))). I totally understand the need to feel close and intimate with your significant other during this time. I'm so glad you are following your midwives' advice. May I ask why 6 months?



    My DH and I decided to wait to start TTC again until it's been about 6 months. We just got married in Feb and the pregnancy was a surprise. We need to work on finances and I want to lose some weight first, so we wanted to wait a bit before intentionally trying.
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    Me: 28, DH: 28 | Married 2/9/13
    BFP #1: 5/22/13 | EDD 2/1/14 | MMC confirmed 6/27/13 | Natural MC 6/28/13
    BFP#2: 12/15/13 |
    Elinor Sadie born 8/10/14
    My Blog: kountingsheep.com

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  • Crazy level from 1-10: 7

    CD/DPO: 28/7

    Can I just _get AF_____ already?!:

    Signs/Symptoms: None


    Explain your Crazy here: I know we are out this cycle, so I'm just ready for it to be over and get on to the next. The 2WW is just as annoying when you know you're not KU.


    "Love is what makes pain bearable." - I love you my Angels. 
    **All After a Loss Welcome**
    BFP #1: 6/25/09 EDD 2/13/10 @ 6 weeks- Saw HB @ 9 weeks - DS born 2/11/10 (39w5d)
    BFP #2: 2/20/13 EDD 11/4/13 - Saw HB 3/19/13 (7w2d) - MMC discovered 4/13/13 (10w5d) - Est. loss @ 9w3d - D&C 4/14/13
    BFP #3: 12/19/13 (4 w1d) EDD 8/27/14 - 1/1/14 discovered it was ectopic/ tube had burst/ had surgery to remove tube (@ 6 weeks)
    BFP #4: 9/10/14 (3w6d) EDD 5/21/15 - natural MC 9/23/14 @ 5w5d

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    Oh I'll play!!!  I've been camping all week and definitely need a ticket!!!!

     

    Crazy level from 1-10: 7 and climbing...

    CD/DPO:  CD 21/ 8dpo

    Can I just ______ already?!:  Get to 12 dpo and test!!!!!  I'm trying really really really really hard to wait!!

    Signs/Symptoms:  It sounds weird but my sign is that my boobs DON'T hurt.  For the last couple of months the week before AF my PMS has included really sore boobs.  I know it's still early in the week but I'm praying it is a positive sign!!!!!!

    Explain your Crazy here:  I'm holding onto the hope of a BFP this week to make my EDD next weekend easier to handle.  I was hoping for the last thing for my last EDD and it didn't happen.  And to make it worse DH is going hiking next weekend and won't be here until later in the day on Sunday :-/  I'm just not looking forward to it.  

     

    Keeping my FX for you!  (((Hugs))) EDD are hard.  Be gentle on yourself that day.  

    Thanks!!!! 

    Married the love of my life <3 June 18, 2011 <3 Me (28) DH (29)
    TTC #1 since June 2012
    BFP #1 6.29.12 EDD 3.12.13 MMC discovered 8.11.12 9w5d D&C 8.15.12
    BFP #2 11.2.12 EDD 7.14.13 MMC 6w5d discovered 8w6d 2 failed rounds miso D&C 12.27.12
    BFP #3 8.5.13 EDD 4.18.14 MMC 7w4d discovered 9.25.13 at 10w6d -Trisomy 13- 1 round miso & emergency D&C 10.2.13
    RPL Testing. DX Asherman's November 2013. Low AMH (0.44) January 2014. 
    Operative Hysteroscopy January 2014 to remove scar tissue.
    BFP#4 6.18.14 EDD 3.3.15 Team Pink <3
    --AL always welcome--
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