Do any of your wives plan on having a natural birth at a birthing center or a water birth? If so, do yall have any problems from other family members? My wife has looked into this for almost 2 years now and she has her heart set on it. The problem we are having is with our moms, hers a little more than mine. But neither think she can do, and all her mom does is gripe and complain and the birthing center and the midwife. The 2 people she was looking to for help, seeming how this is our first, have let her down.