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AW: DHs ED: missed this cycle?

I need a crazy train thread now but there is none today so I apologize if this post should be listed there but I'm a friggin wreck.

DH has ED issues and now that we are TTC this cycle he can't keep it up or finish. I'm so upset and derailed. We both are. I really wanted to get KU this cycle but I think I already O'd based on my temp drop. OPKs haven't shown a positive yet and FF predicts tmrw and next few days after that. But those temps have me in tears right now.

I think we missed our window and I'm feeling crushed. FML this sucks. All I can do is cry which makes us feel worse.

He's going to go for a second opinion but that doesn't help us NOW during this cycle. I'm crushed.

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Me: 38, DH: 40 | Married April 2012 | TTC since October 2012  

DX: Hypothyroid, DOR, Right Tube Blocked, Uterine Fibroid (awaiting hysteroscopy) | DH: Beta Thal Minor, ED (Cialis)

OCT - DEC 2012 | TI | BFN

JAN 2013 | BFP ~ EDD 9/23/13

MAR 2013 | MMC due to Trisomy 10 ~ D&E MAR. 8

APR - JUN 2013 | TTA

JUL - NOV 2013 | TI |  BFN

NOV 2013 | HSG & SHG ~ Right Tube Blocked & "Thickening" of Uterus

DEC 2013 - JAN 2014 | NTNP |  BFN ~ Switched to new practice

JAN - FEB 2014 | 3-D u/s & SHG ~ Uterine Fibroid ~ Awaiting Hysteroscopy

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Re: AW: DHs ED: missed this cycle?

  • ebwhitebwhit
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    I have no advice but I want to offer ((hugs)). DH travels a lot for work and we have missed two cycles because of it. It crushed me both times. I know it's different but we all want to feel like we are doing everything we can to have our rainbow babies. One temp doesn't mean anything as well...you are looking for patterns. Don't give up yet! See what the next few days bring.
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  • (((hugs))) honey. First, for what it is worth, I don't think you have O'd yet, you may be gearing up, but your temp will rise after you O. Second, there is only so much you can control.  It is frustrating as heck but whatever he has going on is beyond your control.

    I'm glad he is going for a second opinion. 

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  • I don't have any advice, but I do want to send ((hugs))
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    Just offering some HUGS
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  • Ladies, thank you. I've stepped away from the cliff and am slowly walking back towards sanity. Need to get these emotions in check. You've definitely helped me do that and I am forever grateful. ::mobile hugs::

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    Me: 38, DH: 40 | Married April 2012 | TTC since October 2012  

    DX: Hypothyroid, DOR, Right Tube Blocked, Uterine Fibroid (awaiting hysteroscopy) | DH: Beta Thal Minor, ED (Cialis)

    OCT - DEC 2012 | TI | BFN

    JAN 2013 | BFP ~ EDD 9/23/13

    MAR 2013 | MMC due to Trisomy 10 ~ D&E MAR. 8

    APR - JUN 2013 | TTA

    JUL - NOV 2013 | TI |  BFN

    NOV 2013 | HSG & SHG ~ Right Tube Blocked & "Thickening" of Uterus

    DEC 2013 - JAN 2014 | NTNP |  BFN ~ Switched to new practice

    JAN - FEB 2014 | 3-D u/s & SHG ~ Uterine Fibroid ~ Awaiting Hysteroscopy

    ***All Are Welcome!***

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  • Hugs. Lots of hugs. Glad you are no longer in panic mode. Breathe. I can hear your anxiety in your typing. I know it's hard but you need to get it all in check today so you can at least give yourselves a shot. You need to find a way to decrease the pressure you are both feeling. Not sure if this makes sense in writing but slow things down. All day today you need to force yourself to relax. You are still in this. You have a chance this cycle. You need to take control in a calm and loving way. Deal with ED on another day. Think secondly about making a baby and let your first thought be loving your husband and making him feel extra cared for. I know you are feeling frustrated and disappointed so imagine how much more he feels. Keep breathing and thinking positive thoughts.

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    Hugs. Lots of hugs. Glad you are no longer in panic mode. Breathe. I can hear your anxiety in your typing. I know it's hard but you need to get it all in check today so you can at least give yourselves a shot. You need to find a way to decrease the pressure you are both feeling. Not sure if this makes sense in writing but slow things down. All day today you need to force yourself to relax. You are still in this. You have a chance this cycle. You need to take control in a calm and loving way. Deal with ED on another day. Think secondly about making a baby and let your first thought be loving your husband and making him feel extra cared for. I know you are feeling frustrated and disappointed so imagine how much more he feels. Keep breathing and thinking positive thoughts.

     All of this. Plus a few more (((hugs))). 

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  • love, love, love you ladies!!! xoxoxo

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    Me: 38, DH: 40 | Married April 2012 | TTC since October 2012  

    DX: Hypothyroid, DOR, Right Tube Blocked, Uterine Fibroid (awaiting hysteroscopy) | DH: Beta Thal Minor, ED (Cialis)

    OCT - DEC 2012 | TI | BFN

    JAN 2013 | BFP ~ EDD 9/23/13

    MAR 2013 | MMC due to Trisomy 10 ~ D&E MAR. 8

    APR - JUN 2013 | TTA

    JUL - NOV 2013 | TI |  BFN

    NOV 2013 | HSG & SHG ~ Right Tube Blocked & "Thickening" of Uterus

    DEC 2013 - JAN 2014 | NTNP |  BFN ~ Switched to new practice

    JAN - FEB 2014 | 3-D u/s & SHG ~ Uterine Fibroid ~ Awaiting Hysteroscopy

    ***All Are Welcome!***

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    image snegde:
    Hugs. Lots of hugs. Glad you are no longer in panic mode. Breathe. I can hear your anxiety in your typing. I know it's hard but you need to get it all in check today so you can at least give yourselves a shot. You need to find a way to decrease the pressure you are both feeling. Not sure if this makes sense in writing but slow things down. All day today you need to force yourself to relax. You are still in this. You have a chance this cycle. You need to take control in a calm and loving way. Deal with ED on another day. Think secondly about making a baby and let your first thought be loving your husband and making him feel extra cared for. I know you are feeling frustrated and disappointed so imagine how much more he feels. Keep breathing and thinking positive thoughts.

     All of this. Plus a few more (((hugs))). 


    Snedge put it so well I cannot add to this except big squishy ::hugs::



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