I swear everytime I tell someone BM has been being good, something crazy happens.
We leave for Jamaica next week. BM isn't a fan of us taking vacations. Not because she will miss her kid, and I say that because she'll go weeks at a time without seeing her like its no big deal, but because we can take SD on great vaca's and she can't. When SD was 4 we had to go to court so we could take SD to Disney, a place that BM told SD was only for adults. Before we went to Disney, BM bought SD a phone. A 4 year old does not need a phone...
She doesn't need one now that she's 9 either. But BM gave her one of hers. The woman literally has 4 or 5 prepaid cell phones that she told SD are free. The phone kept ringing and ringing with an unknown number yesterday. I finally answered it and it was an obviously drunk and or high man. "Yo, what the eff T! You never call me anymore. What happened?" I asked who it was "Girlllll its D! why dont you call me anymore?!" i told him he had the wrong number and he hung up. He called 4 more times! Made DH tell him to stop calling. I went through the old texts on the phone and its someone she owes money too. I'm guessing she hooked up with him from the way it sounded.
I want to take the phone and throw it at BMs head. Giving a phone to a 9 yr old in hopes it'll make you seem cool, isn't cool. But this, this is just trashy IMO.