I couldn't make a clicky poll but I just wanted to poll you all and see what the consensus is. In my area (MN), we give a gift at the bridal shower (if we're invited) and another gift at the wedding. My MIL and her family is from Oklahoma, and they only give one gift--either at the shower or the wedding. So if they are invited to the shower they give their wedding gift at the shower. If they don't attend a shower then they bring their gift to the wedding.
So what do you do, and what state are you from? Shower gift separate from wedding gift, or just one gift total? I am especially interested in what other Oklahomans have to say.